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33 San Francisco, CA Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 32–45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:10am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I really like to grab life by the balls and make the most of it. I've lived in Germany (that's where I'm from), England, France, New York City, Rhode Island, Scotland, and San Francisco. I like good absurdist theatre and try to make it when I can. Different perspectives are important to me and I usually get along best with people who speak a couple of languages and are on a somewhat circuitous path through life. Myself, I've worked in a business consulting firm (meh...), studied method acting, ran a theater company, worked in plenty of bars and restaurants, got a Masters degree in linguistics and a PhD in philosophy. It's made me realize there's no one thing that I'm destined to do, and that I would like to find a way to continue exploring different kinds of lives for a while to come. In fact, I may start my own scuba school...
What I’m doing with my life
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I teach and do research in bioethics at Stanford. But I also dabble in journalism, work on my aerial acrobatic skills, and produce, direct, write and perform theater.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
rhyming; figuring things out: broken toilet flushes, indecipherable handwriting, gadgets without instruction manuals; playing musical instruments mediocrely; running up stairs
The first things people usually notice about me
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This may be a toss-up between my brains and my green eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Kurt Vonnegut, Joseph Heller, Douglas Adams, Victor Hugo, Herman Melville, Fyodr Dostoyevsky, Leo Tolstoy, Boris Vian, Heinrich Böll, Margret Atwood, PG Wodehouse, Thomas Pynchon, Pierre Boullle, Douglas Coupland, Michel Houllebecq, Jorge-Luis Borges, Friedrich Dürrenmatt, Charles Mee, Tom Stoppard, Sam Beckett, Jean-Paul Sarte, Friedrich Nietzsche

Movies: 'Once', 'Papillion', 'Lock Stock and Two Smoking
Barrels', 'The Saddest Music in the World'

Music: Tom Waits, Gogol Bordello, Georges Brassens, die Toten
Hosen, Pixies, Einstürzende Neubauten

Food: Southern French (lots of seafood...), Sicilian (swordfish!),
Thai (curries)...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-rewarding relationships
-the written word
-some form of expression
-my wits
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Because of my work - the mind, the meaning of meaning, metaphysics, evolution...
In general - where I'd like to travel to next, how to get out of paying parking tickets, whether it's too late to become an astronaut after all, random stuff like the name-letter effect or the introspective illusion, how there could be a canton in Switzerland that didn't give suffrage to women until 1990, whether it makes any sense to learn Esperanto...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical Friday night - sometimes I'm watching a play (sometimes I'm in a play), sometimes I'm out dancing, sometimes I'm having a dinner party, sometimes I'm in New York, sometimes I'm home watching a movie, ideally I'm out at a bar having a wicked conversation with a kick-ass person
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I usually look at the photos first when I check out a new profile...