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30 Kirkland, WA Androgynous, Intersex

Androgynous, Intersex

I’m looking for

  • Women who like women
  • Ages 20–31
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:59pm
Demisexual, Bisexual
Asian, Native American, White
Body Type
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), C++ (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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A friend once said that for being so liberal that my personal code is still somewhat old fashioned. I'd like to think that's a good description of me in many ways: mixing of opposites. I love riding my motorcycle as much as cooking at home. A perfect night involves shopping for a gorgeous outfit before settling in for a night of games (video or board) with great friends. I'm somewhat new to Washington (jeeze, has it already been 6 months?), and not really the type to meet anyone at clubs or bars, so I'm hoping to find some wonderful people here.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Settling in, trying to enjoy life, and getting used to the rainy weather. I'm spending a bit of time at the Mox Cafe, which is a super cute little restaurant, though I'm a bit too introverted to do much more than people watch.

Professionally? I make games for a living, and have the title of Lead Engineer, which means I turn zeros and ones into fun for millions of people around the globe. My favorite part of the job is meeting someone who plays something I made -- there's nothing more awesome than knowing you brought some joy into someone's life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a teacher at heart, I get great joy from seeing someone who has the pin drop and understands something for the first time. I know all sorts of factoids and stories and love to tell them. I've got a strange knack for knowing random trivia which comes into play more often than you would suspect.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My best friend in high school said it was my eyes; but I suspect instead it's more likely my long hair. In the winter it might be my long coat, I get comments about it all the time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Oh boy the list section. I'll try to be brief.

Music: I love anything with a solid orchestra or strings. For example: Within Temptation, Bond, Sonata Arctica, Delain. I'm also a big Garbage fan, but their sound can go all over (which is why I like them).

Books: "If it has two covers, I'm reading it", but on the fiction front my favorite book of all time is probably "Snow Crash" by Neal Stephenson. My most recently completed book was "Self Made Man".

Movies: Silly fantasy romances like Stardust to action films like Equilibrium or V for Vendetta. I'll admit a huge weakness for Disney's animated films as well -- Aladdin, Little Mermaid, Beauty and the Beast, Frozen, Sleeping Beauty are all well worn in my collection.

TV: House, Castle, Firefly, Slayers, Ranma 1/2, Full Metal Alchemist, Evangelion, the various Law and Orders.

Food: Over complicated salads, Thai curry, all sorts of things... I'll also admit that I opened a wholesale account with my favorite chocolatier... It's amazing and so worth it. I'll even share.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends and Family. To be more specific:
My best friend Paul (1). We've been suspected of being a couple more than once, but he's always there. Two of my best memories are of our trip through Yosemite together and our roadtrip when I moved to Texas many years back. He's the best.

My godson and his mother (2 and 3). I love that little guy; he's the world to me and probably will be until I find my soul mate if there is such a thing. Hearing about his latest bit of learning or the trouble he's getting into never fails to bring a smile to my face, I just wish I could see him in person more than two or three times a year. Thank technology for Skype.

My mother (4). Okay it's a cliche, but she's always there to give me some balance and perspective. She's a total tomboy and nerd, but that means I can be the emotional one and she'll give the rational support I need.

And to round it out my kittens (5 and 6). They're little fuzzballs who know when I'm busy and make sure to sit on my keyboard insistently at that moment. Like all cats, I know.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All sorts of random things. How about this for an example: The Marginal Theory of Value -- the value of things comes only from their relative importance to other things, especially what you already have.
This theory is behind why trade happens in most circumstances: if I have 100 apples and you have 100 oranges we're likely to not value that last apple and orange very much, so we'll probably both want to trade and get some variety in our diets! I did already warn that I was an economics nerd didn't I? :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Well, since "unpacking boxes" is almost complete I haven't quite figured it out yet. I play with my cats quite a bit, though I'm trying not to just be the crazy cat lady so I'm open to ideas :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am intersex and self identify as an androgyne, and used to be listed on OKC as bi... Oh my heavens the messages I got. I have so much sympathy for all the androphiles involved in online dating. :(

Also: Holy cow OKC now let's me put this in my profile! *happy dance*
You should message me if
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You’re looking for someone who is successful and stable, someone who has strong personal values.

If you know/want to learn how to ride a motorcycle, I’m always looking for riding buddies.

Oh, And if you need an extra for game night.