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34 Tucson, AZ Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 24
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Creative, artistic, sweaty, thematic, big-picture-thinking, passionate singer/songwriter seeks unique, kind, and thoughtful beauty in sun-dresses to ask good questions, wonder at the stars, possibly fall in love, and together learn how to keep it.

I'm a lover of people, a passionate creator, a faithful doubter, a-fighter-for-the-underdog, a critical-thinking, reflective, sarcastic, movie-watching, funny-voice-speaking gentleman. I’m a boy, a son, a brother, an uncle, a godfather, and a friend. Vocationally I'm a musician and graphic designer, and I'd list creativity, expression, and loving people as the central drivers for nearly all of my ambitions. While I strive towards excellence and financial success in each of these disciplines, my bigger goals are to connect and to encourage.

I've travelled widely around the US, as a part of a folk pop band, and I know what it's like to sing to 4 disinterested people or 4,000 excited people!

Life so dependably brings both.

Spirituality, honesty, and service matter tremendously to me. I try to follow Jesus, and to me that means worrying less about getting into the Country Club of Heaven, and instead learning to be tender and kind . . . to myself first, then to the people around me. And who knows if a thousand small kindnesses could ultimately even affect the whole world.

So, I’m looking for a kind girl. Someone who is comfortable with spirituality, with mystery, with doubts, with asking hard questions. Someone who looks for the good . . . in people and things, in science and music.

I consider a dress, a little perfume, and a little bit of dirt under your fingernails to be the good stuff.

I cry mostly every time I read the Chronicles of Narnia, I love astronomy and romantic comedies, and I like country swing dancing.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am the singer and principal songwriter in an acoustic pop band. I have a little freelance boutique graphic design company and I work part time for a church as a music and arts intern, graphic artist, and worship leader.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing songs, singing, doing creative things. Seeing what drives people and what lies below the surface. Big picture thinking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Physically, I'm tall, broad-shouldered... what people would call a "big guy." Thick and strong. Not chubby, but also not toned. I pretend that I'm a cowboy and wear boot-cut jeans and western shirts, but really I'm probably more of a city boy. Also, I have dimples when I smile. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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East of Eden, and Sweet Thursday, John Steinbeck
Til We Have Faces, and Perelandra, C.S. Lewis
Love Wins, Rob Bell
The Naked Now, Richard Rohr
Outliers, Malcolm Gladwell
The Beauty Myth, Naomi Wolf

Back to the Future
The Dark Knight Trilogy
The Lord of the Rings Trilogy
Tree of Life
Sleepless in Seattle
Romantic Comedies

This one is too hard. But here's a shot:
Pink Floyd
Fleetwood Mac
Gin Blossoms
The Swell Season
The Weepies
Jimmy Eat World
Katy Perry

Mexican (So glad to have been born in the southwest!)
Pub Food
Bistro Food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A community of people who love me and keep me honest
An ever-evolving belief in God, limited as it may be
A journal
Coffee with cream
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether or not I'm actually doing what I was born to do. How to face the things I'm afraid of, how to heal hurts and doubts, and how to help others do the same.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going to a concert, dinner, movie, friends' houses, country swing dancing. But staying in with a movie, a delicious drink, and a down comforter is preeeeetty great too.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I ate a delicious donut tonight even though it wasn't a great idea.
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