I am empathetic, mellow, and quirky.
My Self-Summary
I'm quite cerebral (sometimes painfully so) and viscerally emotive.
I get lost trying to describe the distinctive ineffable atmosphere
of a place, or listening to people narrate their histories and
lives. I kind of like it that way. (When I read this I say to
myself, "Jeez, lighten up.")
I also love bicycles, and riding them. I want a folding bike like
David Byrne rides!
What I’m doing with my life
Working on entering the field of mental health care. I spend part
of my week in the area of downtown known as Skid Row. True story. I
suppose a theme of my life is the attempt to heal myself and the
world (probably an ongoing task, heh). I also scrawl compulsively
in my comfort notebook and sing like no one's listening when I can
pretend that no one's listening.
I’m really good at
listening, imagining, remembering song lyrics, singing, mood
swings
I'm a good proofreader but a horrible editor because it's hard to
bore me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I try not to think about this.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
The Parable of the Sower by Octavia Butler; anything by Ray
Bradbury; Philip K. Dick (consummate sci-fi mystic!); stuff by
Derrick Jensen, especially A Language Older than Words; feminist
and queer theory; Madness and Civilization by Foucault; The
Embodied Mind by Varela, Thompson, and Rosch; Watchmen, and
basically anything that Alan Moore wrote (also especially love
Swamp Thing), and comix in general, though I haven't read too too
many of them. Been reading a lot about psychology / psychiatry /
mental health and illness lately.
American Beauty; Waking Life; Synecdoche, New York; those by
Miyazaki; The Brave Little Toaster. Movies get inside my head, so I
end up not watching them very often.
Bright Eyes, Elliott Smith, Sufjan Stevens, Pixies, Cocteau Twins,
Cat Power, Kate Bush, They Might Be Giants, The Books, M83, Simon
and Garfunkel, The Smiths, Sun Kil Moon and Red House Painters, The
National, Sigur Ros, Six Organs of Admittance, Buffy Sainte-Marie,
"Electro-Shock Blues" by the Eels. Young @ Heart Chorus. Sacred
Harp music.
The six things I could never do without
Bike, notebook, tea, my personal library, the public library. My
M.O. tends more toward seeing what I can do without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Stories, plastic and styrofoam and whether there are better things
we could create for the long run, whether you "just are" a ______
or become one (fill in the blank. example: "writer"), the
existential sand trap of thinking about doing things more than
doing them, the transformative power of radical compassion, how
things are always more complicated than they seem, what the hell it
all means, and other assorted mysteries.
On a typical Friday night I am
I have no idea. (Who wants to have a typical Friday night?)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I recently watched "Wife Swap" and was moved to tears.
You should message me if
You are interested in engaging in textual relations, you want to
take me salsa dancing, you want to have some carfree urban
adventure, if you want to write or help publish or talk about (a)
zine(s), etc. Or generally if the spirit moves you.