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29 M Cambridge, MA

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 23–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jun 23
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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N.B. all you lovelies. The semester wreaks havoc with my perception of time / life / sleep. I'm not trying to ignore you, just trying to claw my way out from this interminable stack of academia. Nudge me.

I am wedged in pale fire, struck at the hips. I stride mile-high. I am four hundred years old, a gnarled frozen sea. Stars my eyes, and shuttered.

No, wait.

I dream, I drift. I don't take it seriously. I'm in a committed relationship with soyrizzo, looking for new friends, playdates, adventure pals, partners in crime*, sexytimes. Guys, girls, in-between, neither, couples, velociraptors. I think I'm queer and on the genderfluid spectrum somewhere.

We're both kinda new to this thing. Hoping for low key good times to start — friends first, no expectation of benefits. If this sounds interesting or confusing to you, let's talk.

Oh, and I got Dany on the Game of Thrones test and that made me really happy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Drawing buildings. Thinking about buildings. Trying to escape from an interminable masters program. Riding bikes. Doing backflips. Shooting lasers. One of those is a lie. Three of those are lies.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Rhetorical paradoxes (not really)
deconstructing architectural theory (sorta)
bad puns (yes please)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably the dinosaur head. (edit: OkCupid took down the dinosaur head. This makes me sad.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything and everything. Really good cocktails. Really good BBQ. Whiskey. Counts as a food. Dammit. Ethiopian, sushi, fresh baked bread, I'm an omnivore, I don't know, food is delicious.

The three Star Wars movies before George got to them, The Fifth Element, Blade Runner, Sans Soleil, Solaris, Okay, Maybe I'm Just Into Sci-Fi Today.

recently? Cut Copy, Grimes, Flying Lotus, Crystal Castles, Yeasayer, Boards of Canada, Valgeir Sigurdsson, anything from Ghostly
the staples: Talking Heads / David Byrne, Doc Watson, Ludwig Van, Daft Punk, John Lee Hooker, Bowie, power ballads

Game of Thrones oh my god, Mad Men, Battlestar Galactica, Parks and Recreation, Parade's End was pretty good. David Tennant is GORGEOUS. Twin Peaks. House of Cards. I've certainly forgotten some.

Books. Tough. I LOVE to read. I have 10 books going at any one time for years at a time. I've been re-reading the second half of Ulysses for like 4 years now.

Okay, rapid-fire. Pale Fire, Prisoner of Zenda, Exile and the Kingdom, Anais Nin, Beowulf (Seamus Heaney: so guttural and DREAMY); Ulysses; the Wake (yes I know what you're thinking but seriously it's amazing); Dostoyevsky, voraciously; Calvino yes please; Virginia Woolf; Borges has described the inside of my head on more than one occasion; Moebius; W. G. Sebald; Kafka is extremely important except for that second half of Amerika; ok, I'm going to stop now, there are too many to list.

On the scholarly side, breathy for Nietzsche and loopy for Foucault (maybe it's the sexy bald head). I think Sartre was a better philosopher, but Camus was a better person. I like structuralism and post-structuralism and think they might secretly be the same thing. I try not to take any of this too seriously.

Art, snarkily:
Pollock without the ego, Turner without the realism, and Donald Judd in the landscape. Smithson. Dan Graham. Fireworks and explosions.

Ugh, I realize how that all sounds. I probably read too much.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hydrogen, Carbon, Oxygen, Nitrogen, Calcium, Phosphorus. And covalent bonds.

No, okay, fine:

- wanderlust
- soyrizzo
- a deep pine forest with a hidden lake, at dawn
- fiddle and banjo
- long bike rides
- a sharp pocketknife
- this painting

That's seven. Cause fuck the police.

But I think I could do without things just fine. Somedays I dream of becoming a hermit.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What style of joke our perception of the universe is / how to not fall down stairs.

Power structures and cultural structures, architectural puns, when am I going back to France, when is she taking me to Greece, houses in motion, whether I should sell all my possessions and travel the world on foot.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably working in studio. "What is a weekend?" indeed.
You should message me if
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* I know, everybody says that. And thinks they're being coy. I mean actual crimes.

In order of increasing urgency:

You want to chat
You want to ride bikes
You're a fellow dreamer

You have information about an imminent Stop Making Sense party. This is very important.