I have a lengthy profile. Fair warning has been given. Also, there is a lot more to who I am than what I've carefully chosen to divulge on the Internet. INFJ is my personality type... If it matters. I almost decided to rewrite my profile because, quite frankly, it's puerile in nature. However, at the risk of misrepresenting myself, I decided to keep everything exactly the way it was, albeit this small addendum. I am a more refined individual than when I wrote most of this page, but everything I wrote here is a perfect description of my personality. If you are intrigued and I have sparked your interest let me know. With that being said, I hope you enjoy what I've written here.
I am and always will be a swimmer. It is a part of my DNA, my very being. I am very passionate about my sport. I actually don't swim anymore because I injured both my shoulders. So after 14 straight years my time as a competitive swimmer is over.
I have a lot of interests from movies to video games to playing with children. I really want kids some day; at least one girl and one boy but it doesn't really matter.
I am very proud to say I have never smoked anything in my entire life and I never will. I don't drink either (I mean I have with my parents before but its not frequent enough to classify myself as a social drinker so no I don't drink). I like bendy straws in my drinks. That makes me very happy. I like listening to a really good song with the speakers all the way up.
After I graduate college I really want to be a teacher. I love kids, of all ages. but I want to be a high school English teacher. I am hoping to attract someone who I am compatible with. Someone who cares about their physical appearance and wants to make a relationship last. I don't really have much of a social life, but I am a very fun person once you get to know me. Im just not into the whole "Going out to party's" type of guy. I like to stay in and watch movies a lot more.
I am extremely grateful for my right shoulder. Little kids make me smile the most. Things they say or things they do. Lets see what else.... I hate girls that get cosmetic surgery because they think their lips are too thin or their nose is the wrong shape. I dont really like tattoo's that much on girls or guys. I think they look trashy. My favorite hair colors are Brunettes and blondes. I'm pretty random also. like right now im way too lazy to make all the grammar corrections so sorry if you love correct grammar im just tired and want 1000 words and i dont feel like making every single thing correct.
anyway... i really like bendy straws. ok i know i mentioned that before but whenever i go to a diner or a restaurant and they give me a bendy straw with my soda i get really happy. i know its weird but its awesome for me. and i cant ask for one either because it will still make me happy but its not as exciting as receiving one unannounced. Think about it this way... say you really want a red Mercedes. would it be better if your dad bought you the exact one you wanted with out telling you or if i bought you to the car dealership to pick one out? exactly.
One really really weird thing about me is I have issues with woodpecker holes in trees.. let me try to explain. If i see a series of woodpecker holes in a tree it makes me feel weird. My hair stands on edge and i get a tingling sensation in the back of my neck. I've always wondered if there was a medical term for that...
Im extremely grateful for my right shoulder because last thanksgiving I had to get real surgery, not cosmetic, because I tore my bicep tendon swimming the butterfly. I am super grateful that everything went ok and i have 3 little scars.
For those of you who are from Long Island I did go to Chaminade High School and I loved it. I swam for 4 years there. For those of you not from long island, Its basically the toughest high school ever... oh and its all boys. I currently go to Iona College in New Rochelle and I dorm there. I have an awesome single room. I am majoring in Adolescence education with a concentration in English. Basically i want to teach High school English, hopefully at my old high school. I want to work with kids. Mainly high school, but I desperately want a family. Not now of course... a little later, after I'm established maybe 2 kids. I want at least 1 boy and 1 girl. but if i have 2 boys or 2 girls, im not going to be upset. I love kids so much.
I love music. All types. County, Rap, Rock, Metal, Techno, Pop... literally as long as it sounds good. I also have a knack for memorizing every single word in songs, and when im alone or with people in super comfortable ill mouth the words... I dont like to sing because im a terrible singer. I'm not a musical person. Well that's not entirely true. When i was a little kid i played the piano for about 5 years. But i had to give it up because of swimming. Oh i also have quite a diverse taste in movies... again if the movie is good i'll like it. Certain movies i dont like. I dont mind horror, i just dont feel like paying 20 dollars to have 59 mini heart attacks in the theater because of all the stuff that pops out at you.
Uhh lets see what else... I think the female body is the most beautiful thing in the world. Im not a pervert, I just think it's beautiful and there's nothing wrong with that. I think girls who wear boy shorts are really attractive... though i never understood why they are called boy shorts if girls wear them. I also think black is a very sexy color... and i think i look pretty good in a black shirt or something similar. I think girls who wear football jerseys, even though i hate football, are hot. I'm intrigued with girls who know how to dance, because its something I've struggled to gain courage to do for my entire life. Which is also strange because I'm into a lot of very dancy/ techno types of music.. like Basshunter and Cascada, and similar artists.
I have this issue with making the first move and initiating the conversation, not because I'm shy or anything, but because i feel that when you initiate a conversation with someone you give them control over the conversation and that makes me feel uncomfortable. I'm not a controlling individual, i just like to be in control of my own situation, and when someone else is calling the shots it dosent sit too well with me.
I hate hate hate unnecessary piercings... it just dosent do it for me.. the ears is really all i can take. dont do nose rings or bellybutton rings... or anything like that. I think the 2 most beautiful women I've ever seen are Claire Sinclair and Liv Tyler but only when she played Arwen Undómiel in Lord of the Rings. I think that 50's pinnup girl look is probably the most attractive thing ever.
I am looking for a relationship. A real relationship. I want a girl who is not afraid of a little commitment and who's mature. Someone who can hold her own in a conversation, the topic of which contains some substance. I'm looking for an individual who can keep up with a guy who has an active lifestyle... you know... someone who gets excited about waking up at 7am to be the first one at the gym, that sort of person. I would prefer to date someone within driving distance of my current location (Lets be realistic here... a long distance relationship from New York to Brazil just wont work....) however, if you live an ungodly amount of miles from me and just want to say hello, I welcome those messages too. I will not message you if you smoke, have an insane amount of tattoos or piercings, or do any form of drugs for recreation. Nor will I return messages which either have no substance to them, or just say "Hey" or some variation such as "Hey. What's up?
The best description of my personality type is from this website. It describes me to the last detail... http://www.personalitypage.com/INFJ.html
Ill add more to this as i think of things to write