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Deraphim

26 Elk Grove Village, IL Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:37pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English, Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I would love a serious and intimate relationship, but trying to force that with strangers just doesn't work for me, so for right now I'm just looking for someone to do things with and if things go well hopefully things will evolve from there.

I have a long profile, so here's the study guide:

-My favorite section is the books, music and movies part. I'm confused as to what couples are even supposed to do if they can't geek out over the same stuff together.

-INTJ

-I'm a liberal, an atheist, and a feminist and these are all very important to me, but I can accept anybody that can accept me.

-I seriously think Superman is a better character than Batman and am prepared to defend my claim
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
In the middle of a two year grad program and riding the metra downtown everyday to work in the loop. Waiting for the right opportunity to move into the city.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Logic and puzzles
Reaching things on the top shelf
Picking things apart and reflecting on them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no idea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:
-Currently reading a lot of Phillip K. Dick and exploring some classic science-fiction

-Favorites include The Name of the Wind, Lois Lane: Fallout, Redwall, Dino topic, Carl Sagan's "Demon Haunted World", the Kitchn Cookbook

Movies:
-There's certainly more to put down, but here's a good representation of my taste in movies:
Citizen Kane
Ghostbusters
Wes Anderson
Hayao Miyazaki / Ghibli
Disney
Pixar
Avengers
Who Framed Roger Rabbit (my most recent favorite)

Television:
-I don't watch lot but when I do my tastes are typical nerd stuff: Doctor Who, Sherlock, Firefly, Avatar, etc. Pretty much everything you'd expect except Big Bang Theory and My Little Pony.

-Currently working through every incarnation of Star Trek on Netflix (currently: Voyager)

Music:
- Weird and eclectic
- I recently started collecting Jazz records, half for the ironic hipster cred, half because I don't understand the music at all which is rare. I've actually developed a bit of a taste for it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music
An occasional moment alone
My intelligence (for whatever it's worth)
The hope that humanity will eventually figure out how to live on this planet without slowly killing ourselves in one way or another
Nitrogen for keeping the atmosphere from igniting
New stories to experience
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-Meaning, and how to add it to my life.

-Where did bread first come from? Could it be the most meaningful scientific achievement in human history?

-Words and where they came from and how they might be related to other words. For example, is "fantastic" derived in some way from "fantasy"? If so, that means I've been using it wrong all this time! And what about "terrific" and "terrible"?

Words man.

-Why doesn't anyone ever care to ask me my brilliant theories about bread and words?

-Do aliens exist and does it really make any difference if they do? We make way too many assumptions of what hypothetical aliens would be capable of and then just assume they're out there because "space is really really big". It's precisely because space is big and time is vast that we need rethink our priorities as a species.

-Also, Mars is a terrible idea. I have another, better goal in mind for humanity's next big space endeavor. I'm just waiting Neil DeGrasse Tyson to return my calls.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
-Hanging out with friends, playing board games.
-Out to the movie theater when there's something worth seeing.
-Inside spending a comfortable night at home watching a favorite movie/reading a favorite book/playing video games.
-Any/All of the above.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Why is this even here?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
It's too much to hope for to think that you actually read everything I wrote. Still, I hope you'll message me if you're interested regardless.

Especially if you think we could love the same obscure things together.

Or if you want to share the obscure things you like with me, and you'll let me return the favor.

Or if the idea of staying in bed late on a weekend to watch cartoons together appeals to you.

Also, it's easier for me to respond when messages say more than just hello. I'm better at thinking of something to say when you give me something to think about. It takes two to dialogue. (and yes, dialogue is a verb; I checked)