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Deraphim

26 Elk Grove Village, IL Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 22–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 22
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English, Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Update: So I'm being kept pretty busy between school, work, the holidays and a couple other things. As a result I haven't been able to be online as much as I'd like. Just saying... that's why I can't read or respond to messages as fast I'd like these days. But I am going to keep trying to keep up with messages.
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I have a long profile, so here's the study guide:

-I'm convinced the best way to get to know me is through the books, music and movies section (It's also the part I want to know most about you, so the more you write there, the better). I hope you'll contact me if we've got similar tastes. I'm confused as to what couples are even supposed to do if they can't geek out over the same stuff together.

-Recently found out I'm INTJ if you're into that sort of thing. I tested extremely high for I(ntroverted). It by no means I'm inflexible or anti-social, but there's some things about myself I have just given up on trying to change.

I like to think of myself as being like Mr. Darcy. (Unfortunately, not because I'm incredibly wealthy)

-I'm a nerd and proud of it. You might know plenty of people who are smarter than me, but I'll never give up on learning.

-I prefer to be upfront about things when dealing with people. Subterfuge and social situations rarely mix.

-I'm a liberal, an atheist, and a feminist and these are all very important to me, but I can accept anybody that can accept me.

-Sports are not my thing and never will be.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Going through grad school.
Working a job that doesn't matter while looking for one that does.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Logic and puzzles
Reaching things on the top shelf
Picking things apart and reflecting on them. Some people think this makes me a very negative person, but I disagree.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Everyone says their height, but I actually am pretty tall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm open to the idea that something great can come from anywhere and my favorite things demonstrate this.

Books:
-I read books. I don't finish them in a week usually, but I definitely read them... at my own pace. I enjoy fiction, science-fiction, and sometimes just science. And fantasy.
-Currently reading Revelation Space

Movies:
-I'm more into movies than most. If a movie has a reputation for being good, I'm interested in seeing it. I love almost genres of film: New, old, animated, foreign. All of it.

-There's certainly more to put down, but here's a good representation of my taste in movies:
Citizen Kane
Ghostbusters
Wes Anderson
Hayao Miyazaki
Disney
Pixar
Avengers
Akira Kurosawa

Television:
-Nerd stuff: Doctor Who, Sherlock, Firefly, Avatar, etc. Pretty much everything you'd expect except Big Bang Theory and My Little Pony.

-Currently working through every incarnation of Star Trek (currently: Voyager)

Music:
- My music tastes are weird and unimportant, and I'm typically happy to relinquish control of the car stereo.
- Not country or rap
- Lately my go-to music is Endless Fantasy by Anamanaguchi or Discovery by Daft Punk
- Ask me if you care to know more
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music
An occasional moment alone
My intelligence (for whatever it's worth)
The hope that humanity will eventually figure out how to live on this planet without slowly killing ourselves in one way or another
Nitrogen for keeping the atmosphere from igniting
New stories to experience
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-Meaning, and how to add it to my life.

-Where did bread first come from? Could it be the most meaningful scientific achievement in human history?

-When and how the hell did the word "feminist" grow to have so many negative connotations?

-Words and where they came from and how they might be related to other words. For example, is "fantastic" derived in some way from "fantasy"? If so, that means I've been using it wrong all this time! And what about "terrific" and "terrible"?

Words man.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends, playing board games. (Settlers of Catan)
Out to the movie theater when there's something worth seeing.
Inside spending a comfortable night at home watching a favorite movie/reading a favorite book/playing video games.
Any/All of the above.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Why is this section even here?

I have a tumblr. I'm not very active in posting on it, but I like reading other people's posts far too much that I probably couldn't quit if I wanted to.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
It's too much to hope for to think that you actually read everything I wrote. Still, I hope you'll message me if you're interested regardless.

Especially if you think we could love the same obscure things together.

Or if you want to share the obscure things you like with me, and you'll let me return the favor.

Or if the idea of staying in bed late on a weekend to watch cartoons together appeals to you.

Also, it's easier for me to respond when messages say more than just hello. I'm better at thinking of something to say when you give me something to think about.