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26 Saint Paul, MN Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Aug 31
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Dropped out of university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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I'm a musician and photographer living in the West suburbs, and I try to spend my time doing as much as I can to develop myself as a creative individual. I also teach part time, and take most any gig that will come my way. I'm currently playing in an 80s(ish) cover band, a video game cover band, a country band, and also play with a James Brown tribute show. Woo!
What I’m doing with my life
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I spend a lot of weekend playing shows, mostly throughout MN, WI and IA, and sometimes elsewhere. Usually in the Cities, but it can depend on the weekend. Otherwise I'm also a photographer, and am trying to make a name for myself in that. Basically, I like to be creative and am trying to make a living with that in mind.

I'm still trying to figure out the whole "being an adult" thing. I'm pretty awful at it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making others comfortable. I'm also great at eating tasty food, but have been trying to not do that so much anymore. Losing weight rules (kinda). I hear I'm also great at saying weird shit in my sleep on occasion, so that's fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I generally just like to laugh and get others to laugh. I make it a point to try and make people feel welcome.

Or losing weight. Woo! 30 pounds so far.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't read nearly enough, and I'd really like to change it. I spend a lot of time reading articles on music, photography, and studying new techniques in both of those fields.

I'm a huge movie buff, and have always wanted to be a part of movies. I love finding weird tapes at Goodwill. Favorite movies of all time would include Blazing Saddles, The Godfather (yes, even III), Once, Schindler's List, When Harry Met Sally, Hook, Star Wars IV-VI, Edward Scissorhands, The Wizard of Oz, The Deer Hunter, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, the Shining, 2001, and countless others I'm totally blanking on right now. Also way into TV shows, such as Twin Peaks, the X-Files, Parks and Rec, etc.

Love to play video games now and again, mostly replaying my old favorites from years past.

As a musician I try and listen to just about everything. I play all kinds of stuff, and love hearing new things. Recommend me something! All time favorite musical 'acts' would include The Beatles, The Swell Season, Pink Floyd, Incubus, Foo Fighters, Frank Zappa, John Williams, Danny Elfman, etc. My brain is freezing up on this too.

As for food, I love all kinds of stuff. I'm trying to make a move to eating healthier, but it can be difficult! Suggestions welcome! I love trying new stuff at least once.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Burrito bowls at Chipotle
2. My bass and preferably an amp
3. My camera and whatever the hell lens will work for whatever I'm shooting
4. My phone because let's be honest, we all love solitaire on the go
5. A good friend to talk to
6. My family, who are always there for me
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How far I've come and how far I have to go. I've gotten to do lots of cool stuff, but I still feel the drive to do more and more. That and cats, because thinking about cats is way less stressful.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either playing a gig or just relaxing. I'm not much for the bar scene unless I have a show, sometimes I'll end up on the weird side of Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I will love you forever if you bring me pizza. It's the truth.
You should message me if
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You don't think I sound totally awful! I may not be some rich lawyer, but I'm a good person, and totally want to meet other good people!