I'm a nerd. I love comics and sci-fi and ren faires and anime, video games and pen and paper rpgs. I'm a slightly less successful Leonard Hoffstedder from Big Bang Theory (although, I have WAY better musical taste... punk rock is the way to go).
There, now I'm sure I lost most of you girls with that last sentence alone, even though most girls "<3 nerds" now. That wasn't the case when I was younger. Honestly, I don't think that's the case now, I just think they like the Hollywood nerd.
I want a girl that can be my best friend and partner in crime (or heroics, since I'd make a terrible criminal). One that will have just as much fun hanging out and playing video games as she would hitting up a bar and playing pool (if I like you, I might let you win). Someone that can relate to the anger I have over the changes in Game of Thrones the tv show. Watch Walking Dead and totally help me plan our survival in the coming zombie wasteland.
This girl should also be interested in trying new things that she may not have done before, i.e. playing some pen and paper rpgs (like d&d, don't worry, I'm not a LARP'r... Not that I wouldn't try it if said girl was), or marathoning an awesome tv show like Firefly or Community or Big Bang Theory, or whatever. Maybe even going to a local punk show and checking out some bands. I love live music and comedy, so that will come into play at some point. Maybe, just maybe, actually hang out and watch wrestling with me... Yes, I like wrestling, sue me.
A girl that will make me a mixtape as a surprise, just to give it to me when I hand her the one I was making to surprise her. Or can recommend awesome comic books for me to check out. And can keep up with me on movie quotes... the more random and hilarious, the better. Someone that will spoil me just as much as I would spoil her.
Also, someone who'd like to travel around and check out cool things. I'm going to Cancun again this year, and it's kinda lame being a 3rd/5th wheel. edit** Not going to Cancun. Going to Chicago for Riot Fest instead. Still by myself because everyone is lame, but whatever, 3 days of punk rock in one of my favorite cities. Hell Yeah.
Above all, I want a 50/50 relationship. Someone who will try just as hard as I will and enjoy being with me as much as I her.
I know the odds of finding this girl and both of us having a mutual attraction to each other on a dating website has astronomical odds against happening, but, never tell me the odds. (points if you can nail that reference).
I'm getting more and more skeptical about internet dating... The very few dates I actually get, I tend to end up hearing "You're too good for me." Or nothing at all. Maybe I try to hard. I dunno.