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39 DeKalb, IL Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26-39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:16am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I would like to share, enjoy, and experience life with my other half ….whoever she may be. Wanting to start out slow, but ultimately would like to find a lasting relationship. Perseverance, integrity, loyalty, ambition, work ethic, respect for others, and a sense of humor are some character traits I value in a person. I genuinely want to get to know someone and hope it turns into a great thing. Being able to have a conversation with someone is a big must with me. With any great relationship, a good foundation should be in place to build upon as time goes by. Communication is key.
What I’m doing with my life
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Helping people improve their biggest investment, their home.

When not at work, I enjoy spending time outdoors with my dog Brick. He is a 9yr old Boxer who knows how to always put a smile on my face.

As the seasons change, and become a little bit more artic, I move indoors more. I may find myself playing guitars with friends around town, or enjoying a few drinks in someones (heated) garage. I also enjoy relaxing by myself with one of the many books I have acquired over the years.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am really good at being spontaneous. I have been known to pick up at a moments notice and go on a vacation. I one time bought plane tickets for Puerto Rico on a Sunday, and was sitting on the beach on Wednesday.

I also feel that I am a really good listener. My years as a bartender has definitely helped to hone this skill. I always try to be as impartial as possible, and offer advice when appropriate.

I've been told that I do pretty well on the guitar. I have owned a guitar for nearly 16 years, but have recently re-discovered a passion for playing. I started taking a music theory class a couple months back, and it is opening a whole new world.

Not drunkenly texting people at 3 A.M. and then regretting it the following morning.

I can pick out the perfect avocado 93% of the time, scientifically proven.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The beard?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Directors: Ridley Scott, Dario Argento, Darren Aronofsky, John Carpenter, Michael Mann, Guillermo del Toro, David Cronenberg
*I also have a weakness for disaster films (The Day After Tomorrow), sports movies (The Natural), and man/woman VS nature flicks (Everest).

Books: I use to be a voracious reader, but haven't read much the last few years. Going to try and start again, so I'm only entering books that I am currently reading: How to Brew (6-28-15)

Music: Wilco, Son Volt, LCD Soundsystem, Beastie Boys, The National, Spoon, Calexico, Weezer, Death Cab for Cutie, The Decemberists, Ween

Shows: Scrubs, Bobs Burgers, Misfits, Game of Thrones, Fargo
*There are so many great shows coming out every year, how does one fine the time and/or pick the ones to watch???

Food: I have a serious thing for tacos. I've considered entering a 12 step program.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1.) Screaming/crying kids in public places
2.) Sitting in traffic
3.) Randomly bumping into a former acquaintance, and not being able to remember their name
4.) Saying something completely inappropriate and the awkward silence that follows
5.) Shopping at Wal-Mart on Black Friday
6.) Constipation

**Somebody told me I did this wrong, I think I like it better my way**
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
*How parralel lines have so much in common, and what a shame it is they will never meet.
*How there is a very thin line between fishing and just
staring at the water looking like an idiot.
*Why we only write on desserts, I think I would really appreciate a Happy Birthday meatloaf.
* Why fishing is considered hunting when actually it's tricking and killing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Binge watching the new season of Orange is the New Black!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've been known to take 5 days to complete one load of laundry.

Once I was stuck on an escalator for 45 minutes when it broke down.
You should message me if
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You remind me of home.

You have grown tired of traveling alone, and you would like me to ride with you.

Live within an hours drive of my city.

Enjoy good shows at small clubs.

If you have ever loved someone more then Kanye loves himself.