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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 7
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Other and it’s important
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am a strong independent man, I know what I like and I go after it. I have been called soft spoken, which some might see as a bit of a contradiction after saying I go after what I want. I don't believe that it is a contradiction. It is entirely possible to chase your dreams while still remaining polite and humble.

I have just recently gotten into the poly amorous community, it's something that I have felt for a long time but have not actually sought out until recently when I have spoken with several friends and others who have gotten me into it. I am engaged, and while she is not poly she supports my lifestyle completely.

Some more things about me:

I don't enjoy drama. There is not enough time in life to cause problems for someone else.

I can't stand the usual dating games. I'm looking for people who are smart and friendly and can be honest with me and themselves.

I'm always open to meeting new and interesting people. People who enjoy having a good time, hanging out, going to a bar, going to the movies, even going to an amusement park to just have a good time.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a line cook for a hotel, so I'm following my dreams of cooking. I have many plans for my future and this is a nice step on that path.

I'm also involved in a lot of other things. I enjoy practicing martial arts in the park with friends, I enjoy playing video games every once in a while, and I'm a big movie buff.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, problem solving, breathing water (someday I'll be able to substitute water for oxygen, but for now...)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes. They are hazel green and change depending on what I'm wearing. Either that or my broad shoulders.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: So many, but currently it is George R. R. Martins series "A song of Ice and Fire.", Lord of the Rings, Kitchen Confidential, The Dark Tower Series, The Te of Piglet, The Way of the Peaceful Warrior, Snow Crash, Cryptonomicon, Quicksilver, I just started reading some short stories by William Gibson Johnny Mnemonic and burning chrome. Then I will move on to Neuromancer.

Movies: Action - Ronin; Comedy - A night at the roxbury; Teen/coming of age - Empire Records; Romance - Before Sunrise, After Sunset. Other movies: fight club, Road to Perdition, Batman Begins, Lost in Translation, Gaden State,

Music: Just about anything, what's on my playlist right now though: Metallica, NIN, The Crystal Method, Queen, The Scorpions, Michael Jackson, all kinds of 80's music, ministry, Counting Crows, Ace of Base, Barenaked Ladies, Crash Test Dummies, Dead Can Dance, Delerium, Dido, Enigma, Five For Fighting, Lords of Acid, Moby, Poe, Prince, Sisters of Mercy, Sting, They Might Be Giants, Tori Amos, and William Orbit, The Fray, Nickelback, Soil, Three Days Grace...

Food: Too many to really mention here, I love food of all types. Some of my absolute favorites are japanese, thai, mexican, just about anything hot and flavorful not the typical american "burn your tastebuds out and call it texmex..." I love any kind of food that is prepared out of love, that is what adds the best flavor to any dish.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Cuddling 2. Food 3. Friendship 4. Freedom 5. Love 6. A good book
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Food, the things in my life that make it good, eliminating those things and people in my life who aren't doing me any good, realizing that I do in fact matter and deserve a voice in this world. I also spend a lot of time thinking about opening my own restaurant. What kinds of foods I'll serve, what the decor will be like, hell...even what the dishes should look like. Yes I'm a dedicated nerd, but I love food. I can't stop thinking about it really.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working, then usually hanging out at home, or maybe out with some friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can be shy in large groups, but very outgoing with small groups or with people I know. Even though I may seem like a goody two shoes I've done a lot of interesting things in my life, a lot of which will probably shock you. If you wanna know, ask. I'll probably tell you.
You should message me if
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You are interesting, intelligent and passionate. Are interested in friendship, or dating. Hell, even if you just want to ask me about how to prepare some sort of dish, I love helping people out.