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strangerbox

30 / F / bisexual / Available

Boston, Massachusetts

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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I am iconoclastic, intuitive, and impulsive.

My Self-Summary

I'm sort of a spaz. Drawn to complex, contradictory ideas and people. INFP on Myers-Briggs.

Things I'm into: sociology and cultural studies. Ethics. Dark, atmospheric indie films. Staying up all night. Cooking. Dancing. Books and more books. Laughing at practically anything. Talking to strangers. Subverting the dominant paradigm.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a graduate student in criminal justice.

I’m really good at

conversation, seeing both sides, the "soft sell," dancing, listening, appreciating absurdity, breaking the rules, making cats purr, getting all bent out of shape over crimes against humanity

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm not sure. Whatever it is, I doubt it matters.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Lunar Park; The Man in my Basement; Crime and Punishment; What We Talk About When We Talk About Love; The Executioner's Song; crime/suspense novels by James Ellroy, Peter Robinson, Thomas Cook and Val McDermid; most of Joyce Carol Oates.

Movies: The Exorcist, 12 Angry Men, Six Degrees of Separation, Pan's Labyrinth, Death at a Funeral, Glengarry Glen Ross, The Usual Suspects, The Big Sleep, The Sweet Hereafter, Exotica

Music: alternative rock, some blues, some rap, some other stuff

Food: sushi, frozen margaritas, greek, thai, ice cream, green grapes, fresh herbs, strawberry frozen fruit bars

The six things I could never do without

books, good food and drink, challenging discussions, sex, laughter, hot showers

I spend a lot of time thinking about

whatever I'm craving, good and evil and other Obnoxiously Big and Pretentious Ideas, what to do next, what makes people tick, conversations I'd like to have, books I've read, movies I've seen, what to cook for dinner, how long I can reasonably put off emptying the catbox

On a typical Friday night I am

Thinking about all of the exciting things I would do if I had more money and a car.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I hate porn.

You should message me if

You want to talk about books, movies, muppets, salad seasonings, or any other interest we might share.