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strangeremain

22 Washington, DC Genderqueer, Non-binary, Transgender

Genderqueer, Non-binary, Transgender

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 19–25
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:56pm
Orientation
Pansexual, Queer, Demisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Pisces
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Status
Open relationship
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm Jes, a Genderqueer Transfemme philosophy student and radical organizer living in Washington DC. Gender neutral pronouns (they/them or ze/hir)

NOTE: A lot of my answered questions have outdated responses from years ago. If you come across a response that is problematic please let me know so I can fix it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Going back and forth on the concept of grad school
Doing organizing around trans/queer issues
Reading Infinite Jest (after 3 years of saying I would)
Raging against the flesh prison
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking philosophy/ queer theory
Organizing for revolutionary social change
Making terrible puns
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well people tend to stare at me in the streets so there's something they must notice about me, but that's probably just that I'm trans and they're transphobic.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:
A Song of Ice and Fire, Breakfast of Champions, City of Glass, Slaughterhouse 5, The Stranger, Saga, Bitch Planet

Philosophy (Because this deserves its own section):
Post-structuralism, Queer Theory, Phenomenology and Leftist Philosophy, with an emphasis on Nietzsche, Foucault, Deleuze, and Poststructural-Anarchism.

Films:
The Big Lebowski, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Cabin in the Woods, Monty Python and the Holy Grail

TV Shows:
Doctor Who (despite Moffat's best efforts otherwise), Game of Thrones, Adventure Time, Archer, Bob's Burgers, Jeopardy!, Orange Is The New Black, Bojack Horseman, Steven Universe

Music:
The Grateful Dead, Phish, The Revivalists, Frank Zappa, Pink Floyd, Les Claypool, The Allman Brothers Band, Umphrey's McGee, Cream, They Might Be Giants, Against Me!, Ramshackle Glory, Mischief Brew, Andrew Jackson Jihad...etc. If its Jazz, Funk, Jam, or Punk, chances are I'll like it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to create and maintain radical spaces
How to create the change we want to see in the world
The gender binary and why it is terrible.
How to escape from kyriarchical oppression
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing things
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am literally a cat
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want someone to have deep conversation and explore ideas with
You identify as queer! :D
You are polyamorous and are cool with the fact that I live with my partner
You identify as an anarchist or otherwise anti-oppressive & leftist
You like cuddles
You want to

Don't worry, I only bite upon consent! ;D

(also, if I view your profile but don't message you, feel free to still message me, I'm shy sometimes around new people)