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29 F New Brunswick, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:35am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly other
When drinking
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
If my mail box is full rate me or try back later please because I don't check my mail everyday, I apologize.

I'm sorry to write this but I must start with
some little warnings :

(I know some of you guys hate that but you will
Understand when you're a woman some day haha)

1.) Please be respectful when you message me.
2.) I do want a real relationship
3.) This isn't a profile where I'm seeking wild, casual sex ( sorry swingers and married folks)
4) Please message me with something more than"Hi"

I consider this my "other" profile for lack of a better term. I know this isn't fetlife or a kink site but I thought it couldn't hurt.What this profile represents is only a part of myself and what I seek .
I have a real profile on here telling you all about me with a few pics. I would be happy to share that profile with you if we get that far.

I assure you I'm quite attractive over all , depending on your tastes of course .

I'm a new submissive to D/s. I'm looking for a some what experienced to experienced Dominant man for a committed relationship, influenced by power exchange.

Ideas of what that means is totally open for discussion as things naturally progress
( I'm In no rush). But lots of trust and vulnerability are involved so it can't end up being a casual thing.

I can't say how far I want to take this journey in my next relationship or how to label this need, but it is exactly that, a need
( for lack of a better explanation). I don't expect to meet anyone that this isn't important for as well.

This is about a bond that goes beyond the physical so I do seek more than a sexual relationship.
I love the mental and physical aspects of D/s mixed with the regular vanilla things. It's rare to get both vanilla and kink with one person but that's my goal :)

In a perfect world I would like this to become in time a LTR

Even though I'm fairly educated on this topic the experience is very new to me...
please take it slow and savor as we find our way.
What I’m doing with my life
I live a holistic life of health, wellness, and spirituality . I relish how unique and fun it is to experience daily. I take life in moment to moment, day by day with my goals out in the horizon.

I work for myself helping others find pleasure in life through health and wellness.

If you haven't gotten the hints, health and wellness to me goes way beyond hittng the gym.
In fact I think I only use gyms in the winter time.
I’m really good at
I would feel like I'm bragging so you'll just have to find out :)
The first things people usually notice about me
My natural red hair and compassionate nature
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too, too much. We can do this when we're getting to know each other.
The six things I could never do without
family, books, yoga and meditation, laughter, the great out-doors, all kinds of touch and affection.
Inspirtation too...I eat that up daily :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How beautiful nature truly is...
Everyday I'm impressed by it's grandeur.
On a typical Friday night I am
It's ever changing...we'll talk
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
if you find another red head on here with a similar user name to mine it's most likely me
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Before you ask, I do have a fetlife account.

Message me if what I listed below vaguely
describes you in some way:

* a some-what experienced to experiencd
skilled Dom ( FYI soft spot for Daddy Doms)
*not a Sadist
*you're a gentlemen
*very, very patient and caring
*great sense of humor
*doesn't take themselves and life too seriously
* not superficial
*very honest
*disease free
* sane
*not into humiliation, blood play, fire, urination and things of the sort

* It's very important that you're into existential conversations, meditation, and enjoy living a life of health and wellness with healthy doses of spirituality.

In the end I want you to be my best friend, spirtual equal, and the master of my heart, body, and soul.
Lol too much?

It's difficult to get a sense about me from this profile but I'm usually perceived as warm natured, easy going, compassionate, intelligent and blah blah blah lol
You get the picture...I'm a good person to be around.

*I must make this clear once again, I'm not looking for a relationship based on sex but trust and intimacy. If you're JUST looking for kinky sex it won't happen here. I can sense the abusers and fakers from the real Doms that respect and cherish submission. Be upfront and honest and I'll do the same.

My submission will take time and doesn't come easily as is my nature and need for safey .
I doubt you would want me to make it that easy for you anyway ( where's the excitement in that ?)

In the end this is simply about our natural connection and the qualities we tend to bring out in one another.

It's quite a sign that you read through all that!
If you liked my little mission statement let me know...