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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28-45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:49pm
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Because it takes a Warrior to love a Goddess and it takes a Goddess to show a Warrior what real love is"

If my mail box is full rate me or try back later please because I don't check my mail everyday, I apologize.

I must start with
some little warnings :

(I know some of you guys hate that but you will
Understand when you're a woman some day haha)

1.) Please be respectful when you message me.
2.) I do want a real relationship
3.) This isn't a profile where I'm just seeking wild, casual sex (sorry swingers and married folks)
4) Please message me with something more than Hi
5.) I'm open minded but I'm not poly

Lets see if I can possibly describe this ,well...
I'm looking for a some what Dominant man for a committed relationship, influenced by the
D/s dynamic of loving devotion , subtleties and experimentation of DD/lg
(age play and non-age play),
and Tantra (not limited to Sacred Sex). All are important. I see D/s as a gateway to spiritual liberation if it can be developed with the right intentions and a like-mind-hearted person. In many ways I'm very unconvential and in other ways I'm old fashion.

Ideas of what this relationship this could be is totally open for discussion as things naturally progress
( I'm In no rush).
But lots of trust and vulnerability are involved so I'm not looking for a casual thing here. In all honesty I'm looking for unconditional love and friendship.

I love the mental, physical, and yes spiritual aspects of D/s mixed with the regular vanilla things and tantra bonding. It's rare to get both vanilla, spiritual and kink with one person but that's my hope:)
There is so much more I can say about this topic. Hopefully we'll do that soon :)

Even though I'm fairly educated on this topic the experience is very new to me...
please take it slow and savor as we find our way.

What this profile represents is only a part of myself and what I seek . Its not easy to sense my personality with this one. But I do have a real profile on here telling you all about me with a bunch of clear pics. I would be happy to share that profile with you if we get that far.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I live a holistic life of health, wellness, and spirituality . I relish how unique and fun it is to experience daily. I take life in moment to moment, day by day with my goals out in the horizon.

I work for myself helping others find joy in life through health and wellness.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I would feel like I'm bragging so you'll just have to find out :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My natural red hair and compassionate nature
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too, too much. We can do this when we're getting to know each other.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family, books, yoga and meditation, laughter, the great out-doors, all kinds of touch and affection.
That's more than 6, I guess I broke the rules
(punish me? Lol)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How beautiful nature truly is...
Everyday I'm impressed by it's grandeur.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's ever changing...we'll talk
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Heres a little something you'll eventually find out...
Top things you may find odd or awesome

1) I hug trees and I enjoy sharing that with others, being barefoot in nature is liberating

2.) I think compassion is the most valued trait in a person

3.) I don't like when people are obsessed with their phones. And I don't like to be touched after you've had it in your hand...rub your hands on some cloth or wash your hands( not an OCD thing I have good reasons)... and don't get me started on ear pieces, If we start dating I'll beg you to throw it away.

4.) I always mute commericals ( I dont watch much tv but there is no need to get brain washed)

5.) Silence is beautiful and communicates its own song

6 .) You'll never want to leave once you've eaten one of my special sandwiches ;)

That was just 6 I'm sure there's alot more where that came from. Feel free to message me with your top 6 oddities.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Before you ask, I do have a fetlife account.

Message me if what I listed below vaguely
describes you in some way:

* a some-what experienced to experiencd
skilled Dom ( FYI soft spot for Daddy Doms)

* some experience or serious interest in Tantra as a way of life

*Open to exploring age play and the subtleties
Of DD/lg dynamic in a non-age play way too
(just a curiosity for me right now)

* possible interest in exploring "1950's household"
(Just curious about it but I love the idea of doting on Daddy when he comes home from work)
* Meditate regularly (very important)
*not a Sadist
*you're a gentleman
* you're a romantic
*Very, Very Patient and caring
* self aware
*very Dependable
* unselfish in harmony w/your own needs
*Compassionate *affectionate (public and private)
*great sense of humor

* It's very important that you're into existential conversations, Meditation, and enjoy living a life of health and wellness with healthy doses of spirituality ( I don't mean religion not that I'm against that.)

* you aren't looking to train me to your liking but bring out my true nature

*You accept and care for a whole person

*doesn't take themselves and life too seriously but has a serious side too

* not superficial
*open and honest (communication is always key)
*disease free
* sane
*not into humiliation, blood play, fire, urination and things of the sort

*Not a pot head (I'm 420 friendly but I rather be around someone who isn't smoking every week).
*You don't drink to get drunk
* your tastes lean more toward the curvy, full figured woman variety
* You have a means of a stable income
* you may want children in the future

In the end I desire us to be best friends, spirtual equals, and for you to be the master of my heart, body, and soul.
Lol too much?

It's difficult to get a sense about me from this profile but I'm usually perceived as warm natured, easy going, compassionate, intelligent and blah blah blah lol
You get the picture...I'm a good person to be around.

*I must make this clear once again, I'm not looking for a relationship based on sex alone but trust and intimacy. Foundation is key here. If you're JUST looking for kinky sex it won't happen . I can sense the abusers and fakers from the real Doms that respect and cherish submission. Be upfront and honest and I'll do the same.

My submission will take time and doesn't come easily as is my nature and need for safey . I'm very, very selective.
I doubt you would want me to make it that easy for you anyway .

In the end this is simply about our natural connection and the qualities we tend to bring out in one another.

It's quite a sign that you read through all that!
If you liked my little mission statement let me know...

" If you want my body be sure to seduce my mind...if you want my mind you must arouse it with love before you massage it with kink"