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29 New Brunswick, NJ Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–42
  • Located anywhere
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 28
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If my mail box is full rate me or try back later please because I don't check my mail everyday, I apologize.

I must start with
some little warnings :

(I know some of you guys hate that but you will
Understand when you're a woman some day haha)

1.) Please be respectful when you message me.
2.) I do want a real relationship
3.) This isn't a profile where I'm seeking wild, casual sex (sorry swingers and married folks)
4) Please message me with something more than Hi

I'm looking for a some what experienced to experienced slightly Dominant man for a committed relationship, influenced by the D/s dynamic of loving devotion.

Ideas of what that means is totally open for discussion as things naturally progress
( I'm In no rush). But lots of trust and vulnerability are involved so it can't end up being a casual thing.

I can't say how far I want to take this journey in my next relationship or how to label this need, but it is exactly that, a need
( for lack of a better explanation). I don't expect to meet anyone that this isn't important for as well.

This is about a bond that goes beyond the physical so I do seek alot more than a sexual relationship.
I love the mental and physical aspects of D/s mixed with the regular vanilla things and tantra bonding. It's rare to get both vanilla, spiritual and kink with one person but that's my goal :)
There is so much more I can say about this topic. Hopefully we'll do that soon :)
I would like this to become a LTR in timr

Even though I'm fairly educated on this topic the experience is very new to me...
please take it slow and savor as we find our way.

What this profile represents is only a part of myself and what I seek .
I have a real profile on here telling you all about me with a few pics. I would be happy to share that profile with you if we get that far.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I live a holistic life of health, wellness, and spirituality . I relish how unique and fun it is to experience daily. I take life in moment to moment, day by day with my goals out in the horizon.

I work for myself helping others find joy in life through health and wellness.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I would feel like I'm bragging so you'll just have to find out :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My natural red hair and compassionate nature
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too, too much. We can do this when we're getting to know each other.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family, books, yoga and meditation, laughter, the great out-doors, all kinds of touch and affection.
Inspirtation too...I eat that up daily :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How beautiful nature truly is...
Everyday I'm impressed by it's grandeur.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's ever changing...we'll talk
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
if you find another red head on here with a similar user name to mine it's most likely me
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Before you ask, I do have a fetlife account.

Message me if what I listed below vaguely
describes you in some way:

* a some-what experienced to experiencd
skilled Dom ( FYI soft spot for Daddy Doms)
*not a Sadist
*you're a gentleman
*very, very patient and caring
* self aware
*great sense of humor
* you aren't looking to change anyone to your liking.
*You accept and care for a whole person
*doesn't take themselves and life too seriously
* not superficial
*very honest
*disease free
* sane
*not into humiliation, blood play, fire, urination and things of the sort

* It's very important that you're into existential conversations, meditation, and enjoy living a life of health and wellness with healthy doses of spirituality ( I don't mean religion not that I'm against that.)

In the end I want us to be best friends, spirtual equals, and for you to be the master of my heart, body, and soul.
Lol too much?

It's difficult to get a sense about me from this profile but I'm usually perceived as warm natured, easy going, compassionate, intelligent and blah blah blah lol
You get the picture...I'm a good person to be around.

*I must make this clear once again, I'm not looking for a relationship based on sex but trust and intimacy. Foundation is key here. If you're JUST looking for kinky sex it won't happen . I can sense the abusers and fakers from the real Doms that respect and cherish submission. Be upfront and honest and I'll do the same.

My submission will take time and doesn't come easily as is my nature and need for safey . I'm very, very selective.
I doubt you would want me to make it that easy for you anyway .

In the end this is simply about our natural connection and the qualities we tend to bring out in one another.

It's quite a sign that you read through all that!
If you liked my little mission statement let me know...