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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Okay), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
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this profiles kinda serious but i also enjoy sex because its awesome straight up

as you can see by my personality bars, i restrain my emotions. what i really want is to find someone to help fill those bars and in the meantime i just want to have fun. so ultimately what I'm seeking is someone i connect with and that i find attractive.
i am very genuine/honest
my sense humor can be witty, goofy, dry, sardonic and, self-deprecating.
hate arrogant people but i will claim, I'm damn funny.
not jacked but muscular/thin with a small belly
i like movies and films and want to find someone to watch with
who would travel more? ... this guy
i like going to improv boston.
i need down time, can't always be on the go.
extremely hard working, loyal, and forgiving.
people like to talk to me because i have good energy and i make them feel good.
old soul
"Love does not rule; but it trains, and that is more."
its my goal to find a woman to train with.
i'm a male ENFJ. thats really rare, 2% of the MALE U.S. so, that means if you have taste you will see I'm a catch hahaha joke. if you can do math you will.
i won't close my door to any options because you never know who will be the one to change your opinion.
"changing your opinion is the change of your reality."
"there is no reality except the one contained within us."
Hermann Hesse

in 5 years i see myself finishing up a rehabilitation counseling masters program, living in my own place in Brighton, in a longterm relationship and, working with adolescents or vets in a mental health/drug counseling capacity.
What I’m doing with my life
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graduated in may -14- w/a BA in psych but since you need some degree higher in psych in order to make money... I'm 1/3 of my way done with an addiction education counseling certificate that i will use to generate money towards my MA in rehabilitation counseling. finishing the certificate may 16.
i like going to comedy shows and the occasional bar, even if i don't drink.
avoiding stagnation
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being a positive, observant, genuine person. giving you real talk and not being too concerned with what is supposed to be said.
"A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects."
- Robert A. Heinlein
i'm severely lacking as a human being but lets be honest about this though, the majority of us need to specialize to make that money.
The first things people usually notice about me
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height, disability, arms, eyes, smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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memories dreams reflections, nutrition for the brain, Tuesdays with maurie, 1984 (birth year too), orsen wells autobiography, the pugilist at rest, ham on rye, nikkoli tesla autobiography, the good earth
waking life, exorcist, requiem for a dream, boyz in da hood, first blood, platoon, don't be a menace to south central while drinking your juice in da hood, american history X, pulp fiction, apocalypse now, monty python and the holy grail, a river runs thru it, beetleguise, UP, Hook, good morning Vietnam, star wars III, IV, V, VI, good will hunting.
ER, chapelle show, walking dead, AMH only seasons 1-2-3, Dexter, true blood (talk about desensitizing us to blood, violence, and death. but its so damn entertaining, AM I RIGHT? haha).
classical, folk, daft punk, gorillaz, RHCP, foo fighters, 90's alt., 90's rap, blues traveler, leonard cohen.
greek yoghurt, greek pizza, sushi, grapefruit, pineapple.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a schedule
oral hygiene products
that good feeling in your stomach when you smile or laugh
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my walking and if I'm doing the mechanics of it correctly.
consistency, how humans value it more than truth, IT IS WHAT IS ON MY MIND MOST, TIED WITH DEPRAVED RAUNCHY THINGS ID DO TO HER.
things to do to be happy
how i felt in that moment
what the other guys thinking
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
getting nude and taking selfies then posting for all the week kneed, fairer-sex out there to drool on the keys for oooor feeling inadequate..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i overshare haha at times. creating this profile has been very therapeutic in helping me crystalize my goals and in gaining a clearer sense of self though, making it this long paints me as desperate but i'm not. whatever, know thy self bitches!!!!!!!!!! haha
saying it upfront: my speech is lethargic from my TBI but getting faster. my TBI left me unable to drive, YET. still making gains walking better on my own. i've had Cerebellar Ataxia for 13 years now and its been a paradox. June 21 into 22 "15" is my 13 year anniversary of getting beaten into a coma. in those years, i graduated high school, completed college undergrad in 6 3/4 years with a 3.0 GPA, and i went from a wheelchair to walking unassisted during my undergrad. i was in a wheelchair from late august "02" to early january "10" this is a piece of my inner world, the most traumatic piece. this serious and traumatic bit was added to let the women who take this serious know my will is strong, that my drive is vital to my self conception, i won't stop pushing for progress, and IM HUNGRY! but...IF YOU ONLY WANT TO CONTACT ME FOR MORE DETAILS ON MY AMAZING COMEBACK, DON'T! I KNOW ITS GREAT AND THAT I'M A STRONG PERSON BUT I'M HERE FOR SOMETHING MORE THAN ADULATIONS.
my pace is slower than the average guy my age and because of that I'm a homebody, a sweet-ass homebody though, not ashamed to admit it, who would be game to travel MORE though.
You should message me if
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if you wouldn't mind showing me 1 or 2 things that might blow my mind and/or you think i'd be cool to chill with.
if you'd like to kiss me
if you will speak german to me.
you really like to put thought into doing something nice for your man.
you don't flinch or back down, especially to catty bitches.

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