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30 M Boston, MA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:11am
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i am very genuine
i have a knack for finding the silver lining.
i try to take the time to be in the moment, quickly.
i love trying new things but need a companion to do so consistently.
i TRY to be humble though, it comes easier at times than others.
i have a sharp humor.
i believe heaven is in the details. of course, the devils there too.
closeted nerd
funny in a "casually point out the obvious yet unrealized comic aspect of something" kind of way.
my trip down was pretty grim but im on my way up and i keep achieving not so insignificant goals. my goal now is a beautiful and awesome gf.

"The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life.

Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home.

The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude... I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it.

 And so it is with you... we are in charge of our attitudes."
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
just got my BA in psychology

half way done with my first semester of a certification in addictions counseling course
want to start volunteering for the Home Base program at MGH

working on my federal resume

working on unstructured self-disciplinee inefficiently

"I have a theory that the truth is never told during the nine-to-five hours." - Hunter S. Thompson
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being a positive guy
being loyal
making friends
being awesome
making people feel better and listened to
protecting what i hold dear

"A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects."
- Robert A. Heinlein
The first things people usually notice about me
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height, disability
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
memories dreams reflections, nutrition for the brain, 1984 (birth year too), orsen wells autobiography, the pugilist at rest, ham on rye, nikkoli tesla autobiography, the good earth, something red
waking life, star wars IV, V, VI, hook, UP, BIG FISH, what about bob, saving private ryan, requiem for a dream, trainspotting
game of thrones, MAD MEN, Dr. who, true blood, dexter, walking dead
bach, mozart, schubert, foo fighters, nirvana, cream, oasis, blues traveler, 2pac, mr. cheeks, lost boys, nas, B.I.G.G.I.E., jadakiss, gorrillaz, daft punk, MGMT
vegetables/cheesecake/burritos, walnuts, protein
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a schedule
oral hygiene products
that good feeling in your stomach when you smile or laugh
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
first off, i have to spend a lot of mental energy on just the everyday things 99.9% of people take for granted.
getting my body and mind to advance together in unison
being calm and even tempered
things to do to be happy
what it is that i like
trying to predict the actions of others
why can't they get all of my body type in 1 category: slim/athletic/fit?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
just pretend like i answered as well as other cute guys who's profile you looked at.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
saying it upfront: my speech is lethargic from my TBI but getting faster. my TBI left me unable to drive, YET.
I attribute my successful recovery to thinking positive, being continually optimistic, and working hard
If what i've said makes you not want to message me then its totally your loss because i am so bad ass yet a sweetheart and really sharp witted.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you want something with substance
you don't mind that you'll find my personality is big
if you like to make yourself laugh hysterically and you want a partner.
if you do not lose interest easily
trying to find someone clever, quick, unique, strong-willed, sensual, unafraid.
i am an ENFJ (2% of male U.S) SO if you are an INTJ or an INTP I'd like to talk.
Also message me if you just want to meet someone new, that's why we're all here!

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