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30 Boston, MA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:36pm
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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i am very genuine and my sense humor can be a bit dark, sardonic, witty, goofy, dry, and self-deprecating.

closeted geek

what i want from this is to feel something, preferably good to bad.

a woman once said my attitude towards adversity made her tingle!

i'm a male EFNJ. thats really rare, 2% of the male US. so, that means if you have taste you will see I'm a catch hahaha joke. if you can do math you will.

"there is no reality except the one contained within us."
Hermann Hesse
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
just got my Bachelors in May, 1/3 of the way through an addiction counseling certification program. once done with that i hope to get a job working with veterans.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being a positive, communicating, genuine person, observing.

"A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects."
- Robert A. Heinlein

lets be pragmatic about this though, the majority of us need to specialize to make that money.
The first things people usually notice about me
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height, disability, i have nice arms
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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memories dreams reflections, nutrition for the brain, 1984 (birth year too), orsen wells autobiography, the pugilist at rest, ham on rye, nikkoli tesla autobiography, the good earth, something red.

waking life, exorcist, requiem for a dream, boyz in da hood, first blood, platoon, don't be a menace to south central while drinking your juice in da hood, apocalypse now, monty python and the holy grail, a river runs thru it, star wars III, IV, V, VI.

ER, chapelle show, walking dead, AMH only seasons 1-2-3, Dexter, true blood (talk about desensitizing us to blood, violence, and death. but its so damn entertaining, AM I RIGHT? haha).

classical, daft punk, gorillaz, RHCP, 90's alt., 90's rap, grunge, blues traveler, house, leonard cohen.

chicken parm. all day and twice on tuesday , sashimi, curry, pineapple.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a schedule
oral hygiene products
that good feeling in your stomach when you smile or laugh
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what is most urgent to work on
trying to predict the actions of others
things to do to be happy
the fact that puns are now illegal in china
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
just pretend like i answered as well as other cute guys who's profile you looked at.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i overshare
was in a wheelchair from 2002- 2010.
saying it upfront: my speech is lethargic from my TBI but getting faster. my TBI left me unable to drive, YET. still making gains, walking better.
I attribute my successful recovery to thinking positive, being continually optimistic, and working hard

"Love does not rule; but it trains, and that is more."
You should message me if
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I won't claim I'm something I'm not here. my pace is slower than the average guy my age and because of that I'm a homebody, a sweet-ass homebody though who would love to travel, not ashamed to admit it. message me if you want to pull me outside my comfort zone in any way.

if you want to go somewhere, talk, and see if there is connection

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