I spent years pretending to be happy alone (before coming out). But
I finally sorted that all out and realized what I'm missing in my
life. Don't get me wrong, I'm a happy, optimistic, down-to-earth,
and fun-loving sort of guy. Though I am a serious guy, I try not to
take things too seriously all the time. I do enjoy being goofball
at times, and can be a little dorky. I can feel socially awkward at
times, but manage to hide it pretty well. Overall though I tend to
be the life of the party once I get comfortable. So I’m looking for
my other half, a best-friend, and someone to come home to. I'm
looking for someone who, like me, is honest, loyal, caring,
trustworthy, romantic, and maybe little spontaneous. Someone that
likes adventure, but who can also be just as happy to staying in
and cuddling. Maybe watching a movie, or listening to a
thunderstorm, or just looking up at the stars. That’s not asking
too much, is it? I know I sound like a hopeless romantic. Maybe I
am. I love the quote, "you get the love you think you deserve" and
I think I deserve some good love. That's what this is all about,
finding the right guy to share my life with, and experiencing
another level of happiness. I have a lot to offer and even more
than that..I am a sensitive guy with a heart almost as big as my
funny bone. It says a lot to me when a guy wants to try a
relationship and is wanting to work at it. I am very serious about
that. What else do I say about me that isn't too much and isn't too
little...geeze...I is smart, I is kind, I is special! Kidding
aside, here are some traits
*I enjoy humor but serious discussions almost as much.
*I believe love does exist for us gay guys: the sky doesn't have to
be the limit anymore.
*A hug says more to me than a 1000 words.
*I like a good kisser, I also like a guy with a caring heart behind
his masculine exterior.
*Humor & Honesty is key--everything else pales in
*I AM looking for love, not buds.
*Unresolved rage on an ex situation, suffocation, or a wandering
penis is your ticket out the door (I don't like putting negatives
in here but I've run into this a lot over the years).
*Similarities are the lemon-aide of life and differences are the
spice of life: I enjoy both equally.
What I’m doing with my life
I am into writing, mostly fiction, I am into helping others, food
and movies and exercise.
I’m really good at
Encouraging, listening with a desire to understand, gauging my
feelings, writing,giving good loving (in all its forms), making up
my own songs, and going on linguistic tangents.
The first things people usually notice about me
Tall,blue eyes, soft lips.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Well I have tons of books, music, movies, theater shows I like and
we can get into that later. I will say the first play that got me
addicted to live theater was Godspell and it still makes me tear up
when I see it. My first book that got me into reading was The
Hobbit (second, James and the Giant Peach). There is hardly any
genre in any of these arts or food I won't give a chance Food:
Italian and Lebanese are my favorites. Mexican and Chinese like to
tag team occasionally.
The six things I could never do without
Love of family friends and God
Time to Write
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, spirituality, sexuality, people from my past that I wonder
how they are, and what's next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Typically home. Sometimes I may be volunteering or meeting with a
friend, or with family seeing a movie. Right now, its Friday and
I'm filling this out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like guys :-)) shocking I know!
You should message me if
you are attracted to integrated men who are authentic and real, are
a one man kind of guy, you have a sense of humor, or you are just
simply interested in finding out more. I don't bite (well, only on
Weds between the hours of 2-4pm).