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33 San Francisco, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 5
Native American, White
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
English, French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I don't have enough time right now, even for the friends I already have. Which is to say, I probably won't answer your messages right now. Sorry! I'll be back eventually.

I'm a tornado disguised as a girl.
My parents met in a trainwreck.
I draw all the time.
I play the cello & make electronic noises & scream into microphones.
I'm a responsible risktaker.
I have a firm handshake.
I'm the nicest hedonist you've ever met.
ENFP, if you're into that kind of thing.

My boyfriend Boy_and_giraffe and I are looking for a nice lady or a like minded couple for hangouts or makeouts.
Generally we do this thing together, but sometimes there are exceptions. My ladyfriend, for example.
Honestly right now I'm most interested in people who want to work on creative projects, or want to help contribute to mine.

Which is to say: Inspire me, I dare you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Running my own design firm, recording an album, and honestly not much time left over.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Drawing, singing, being too busy, convincing people to be more adventurous, procrastinating, clapping with one hand, tying knots in cherry stems with my tongue, listening to ridiculous music, spending too much time on the internet.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair looks like cotton candy right now.
Related: I'm often sporting purple glitter eyebrows.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
House of Leaves, White Noise, Quirkology, Rent Girl, Stumbling On Happiness, Dead Girls, Lolita, Snow Crash, The Little Prince, The Crying of Lot 49, Kabuki, The Invisibles, The Tipping Point, Sex at Dawn, A Billion Wicked Thoughts, The Dissappearing Spoon

A Zed & Two Noughts, The Fall, Tekkonkinkreet, Buffalo 66, You Me and Everyone We Know, City of Lost Children, Beyond the Valley of the Dolls, Harold and Maude, Phantom of the Paradise

The Wire, Justified, Deadwood, Trailer Park Boys, Pushing Daisies, Game of Thrones, Kroll Show, Walking Dead, Manhattan

Steven Universe, Adventure time, Bee & Puppycat, Regular Show, Bravest Warriors

Why?, Seekae, Xiu Xiu, Subtle, Modeselektor, Self, Telefon Tel Aviv, Shipwrek, Parenthetical Girls, Daedelus, The Books, My Brightest Diamond, Kronos Quartet, Bat For Lashes, Wallpaper, Amon Tobin, Prefuse 73, Tom Waits, Hot Chip, Plaid, Astronautilus, Knife City, Jim Guthrie, Laura Veirs, Bonobo, Rustie, Kitty Pryde

Thai food of all kinds, coconut water, sushi, chocolate
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the internet
Thai food
wacom tablet
good friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
stop motion animation
behavioral science
turns of phrase
how to be a better artist
that melody i can't get out from under my skin
the reasons why people don't talk anymore
the extra fraction of space that a string takes up when it vibrates
pattern recognition
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Writing a feminist chiptune anthem.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
State Karaoke champion at age 12.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Normally the below would apply, but I don't have enough time right now, even for the friends I already have. Which is to say, I probably won't answer your messages right now. Sorry! I'll be back eventually.


- You're a musician and you're looking for collaborators.
- You are a femme lady who wants to play with a couple.
- You have ringlet curls. 80% of my partners & exes rock curly hair.
- You're working on awesome creative projects, or you'd like to!
- You collect typewriters, taxidermy, or anatomical models.
- You've seen and liked A Zed & Two Noughts.
- You're as busy as I am, and understand the art of properly balancing space and support.