Message Him

Join OkCupid

Find better matches with our advanced matching system

—% Match —% Friend —% Enemy

su_joy

32 / M / Straight / Single

West New York, New Jersey

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:06pm
Ethnicity
Indian
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Hinduism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Bengali (Okay), Hindi (Fluently), French (Poorly)

Similar Users

My self-summary
I'd like to believe I'm an open-minded and "surprisingly" patient person - my fellow NY/NJ'ers know exactly what I mean about patience !! =)
I've had a healthy international upbringing - I was born in London (the accent is still alive) and lived in Bombay (ok fine – Mumbai) and Dubai before finding myself in the New York area (been over 12yrs now).
I work in technology but will vehemently deny being called a “techie” (not really) =). While my work doesn’t allow for much creativity, I can assure you that side of me exists in the realm of films (take a peek at my "spending a lot of time thinking about" section).
Over the last couple of years I've become an avid cyclist - you'll undoubtedly find me riding along the Hudson river (NJ & NY banks) when not riding in city events - be sure to wave !! -)
What I’m doing with my life
I'm constantly tinkering with the "formula of life" (inside joke - ask me about it if curious) to prevent it from becoming routine or mundane. Professionally, that includes constantly adding new/different responsibilities to keep things dynamic. Outside of work, that includes working film projects, being active (road/trail biking in the summer+ live soccer ("football" to me_ games followed by snowboarding in the winter), finding new places to eat/drink & hangout with friends and crossing places off my travel list.
I’m really good at
- Being uber calm amidst needless drama.
- Hosting friends & family at home
- Offering sound advice on car & tech buying - this doesn't mean I'm tech support !! =)
- Being sure to demonstrate that "chivalry" is alive !!
The first things people usually notice about me
That would be the remains of my british accent when I speak in English and how easily it disappears when I switch lingo's (to Hindi, Urdu, Bengali or Marathi).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Did a re-read of the Alchemist over the summer - Coelho doesn't disappoint. Am currently making slow progress through Shantaram while taking full advantage of my subscriptions to Bicycling & Inc. magazines.
The six things I could never do without
Independence: perhaps a cliché but still true !
Technology: I admit it - gadget freak !
Mobility: perhaps I can "live" without my car
Entertainment: have a laugh !!
Courtesy / Chivalry : yes it's alive !
Fox Soccer channel: Can't do without english premier league football
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I shamefully admit that I do spend quite a bit of time thinking about work. But when not, "thinking" time off late has been devoted to filmmaking. I partner with my brother in writing, shooting/filming and editing short/feature films. Our endeavor from 2010 made it to the Cannes Film Festival - a healthy boost to pursue this more.
On a typical Friday night I am
Winding down the week more often that not - I prefer a slower paced Friday night (drinks after work / dinner @ home with friends) because there's always an uptick in activity the next day/night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Perhaps not the "most" private thing but I will admit to being poor at online dating - complete novice.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
Anything I've written has "caught your fancy" - I promise that my brit slang is on a downward trend =)