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34 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 21
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Afrikaans (Somewhat), Norwegian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am a straight cut thoughtful guy with a playful streak a mile wide. I originally hail from a subtropical bit of South Africa (having bailed in 2006, age 25) and hence continually catch people expecting an American/familiar perspective off guard.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Flowing: Durban -> Lillehammer -> Grahamstown -> Oslo -> New York -> San Francisco

I have dropped anchor here and am quite thoroughly taken with San Francisco. I acquired 2 (second hand) cats in New York and have every intent of making myself part of the furniture.

I enjoy travel and have been to many many places not articulated above for short stints/trips/business.

I run, boulder, traipse, bike, snow board and use a motorbike as my primary means of transportation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
butchering the Queens tongue
non sequiturs
calling bullshit
spouting bullshit (like a teapot)
tearing the seams out of my pants (kinetic maelstrom)
seducing animals (Like a ballsy snow white)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My wonky accent (what other languages do you speak again?)
My roiling undercurrent of physical energy
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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food: larb ped, lamb stew, squid ink risotto, pork chops, Dolsot bibimbap

books: Just So Stories, The Little Prince, What I talk about when I talk about running, Dune series (latter books), The Devils Dictionary, A Fire Upon the Deep, Jitterbug perfume, Sprout Mask Replica, Kalki, Dr. Tatiana's Sex Advice to All Creation

movies: Wild Tales, Birdman, Synecdoche, Being John Malkovich, Big Fish, 12 Monkeys, The Princess Bride

music: Radiohead, Death Cab for Cutie, Bjork, Springbok Nude Girls, Beirut, Portishead, Broken Social Scene, Daft Punk, The Flaming Lips, Paul Simon, Queen, Queens of the Stone Age, Rodriguez, Pink Floyd

music clips:

This is South African and rocks my world:

The Flaming Lips' "Do you realize" hits me more than it probably should:

This displaces me:
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good reading material
natural beauty
time to reflect
animal companionship
deep off-kilter conversation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the universe at large; we have so much information at our disposal now that no question has to go unanswered, no assertion untested.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends
Exploring the city
Relaxing inside with someone stimulating
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I harbour the firm conviction that when we bred the small dog breeds, we were not breeding for intelligence. Maybe I just need to meet the right petite pooch.
You should message me if
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Curiosity, uber alles, consumes you. I don't much care about the particulars, but there is a lot to know/understand and I love sharing space with people who are pervasively curious.