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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22-55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:25am
Straight, Heteroflexible
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
. First of all , if the idea of kink, bdsm and or
enforced chastity ( I'm sure a lot of women have wished their man had been able to keep it in his pants. This guarantees it does.)
and cuckoldry ( ) abhor you, then read no further.

This isn't a list of demands or expectations its merely a view into my thoughts and fantasies. maybe you share similar thoughts and fantasies?

if you know what D/s is and you are more D than s then I might be the man for you..
if you don't know what that is but want to ask, please do.. by the way it has nothing to do with Nintendo ! ( )

A couple of people have asked me why I have posted this profile on here rather than a website like Collarspace or Fetlife. its a fair question. I think it is because I want to find someone who enjoys kink and D/s lifestyle, but isn't afraid of being quite vanilla as well. Vanilla has become a dirty word on bdsm sites. Almost as if it is a perversion.

For those familiar with Fetlife, I do have a profile on there which can be found here

If you have an open mind or already like those things mentioned previously, then you might like to look.

I could of course not mention this side of myself at all and then try to introduce someone to it later, but that is totally dishonest in my opinion.
that's why I make reference to it in the opening few lines.

Ok , so we have established that I have an interest in kinky stuff, however that isn't all there is about me.
I am a pretty normal guy as well. I have a vanilla profile on here too, but this will do for now.
unlike most, I don't like football. I do like F1 WRC and MotoGP.

I hope to meet a fabulous lady to share my life with and have an adventure or two. someone to fall in love with and who will fall in love with me.
I'd love to meet someone open minded and down to earth. must have a great sense of humour...someone real..
I am really not looking for someone who dresses in latex or leather all the time and walks around swatting bottoms with a riding crop. I don't think anyone could seriously live like that. That's not to say I don't like leather and having a swat every now and then. :))
I do want to find a woman who is comfortable taking the lead.. Again, not all the time perhaps, but certainly comfortable with it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i have a full time job and a couple of diverse hobbies.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lots of things. I sing well. I am fairly good with my hands. I am a good listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i am usually smiling
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
i don't get to the cinema anywhere near as often as I would like. When I do i enjoy comedy and thrillers.
I don't read many books and feel guilty about that.
I enjoy the theatre especially plays. I also like to take part in amateur plays.
Guilty pleasure is the big bang theory. Love it.
I cannot abide Towie, made in chelsea or big brother. I would prefer to watch paint dry.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1: Tea.
2: Meat. ( Our bodies have not evolved to survive on veg alone).
3: Company. Although I value solitude sometimes, I love company. Especially someone special to talk to about anything and everything.
4: Internet access
5: the lake district. I love the place.
6: a car.
7: a phone.
8: so sue me!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
finding a partner whom i can love and who will love me.

Whether Vladimir Putin is mad enough to invade the Balkan countries and start world war 3.
Whether America would step in on time this time or let Europe be destroyed again before taking action. After all we don't have much oil.
America is still the only nation to use nuclear weapons in a war!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing after a hard weeks work.
Sometimes out for a meal with friends.
I tend to go out Friday rather than Saturday for a drink and sometimes a karaoke....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
D/s and I like to wear chastity devices.
Feel free to ask me about it if you want to ......

== Results from ==
100% Bondage Receiver
100% Submissive
96% Experimentalist
96% Slave
91% Degradation Receiver
88% Masochist
79% Exhibitionist
75% Girl/Boy
75% Voyeur
69% Brat
66% Non-monogamist
58% Bondage Giver
50% Primal (Prey)
39% Pervert
34% Sadist
33% Daddy/Mommy
33% Switch
29% Vanilla
26% Primal (Predator)
13% Brat Tamer
8% Dominant
4% All-Rounder
4% Degradation Giver
4% Master/Mistress
See my results online at
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I am happy to chat with you about pretty much anything you like.

Or if You share an interest in D/s and a man who could love you.