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35 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 16
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Working on Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English, Japanese (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Kindness keeps the world afloat. Pay it forward.

Aloha! I'm back in San Francisco, and ready to explore the best of the Bay Area and Pacific Northwest :)

Previously: Astronaut training in Hawaii near the summit of Mauna Kea, where we test next-generation spacesuits, lunar habitats and rovers,
What I’m doing with my life
Astronaut training — commercial spaceflight — next-generation technologies — applied research and development. I just relocated to the Bay area after several years overseas, back and forth between Tokyo, Brussels, Amsterdam, Vienna, and Hawaiʻi.
I’m really good at
thinking outside the box.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm floating! (when training or working)
The six things I could never do without
Mission Control - Houston, ... More later ;)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Making the world a better place for generations to come.
I began my scientific career at a deep future, multidisciplinary research institute in the forests of Brussels, Belgium,
On a typical Friday night I am
Out at sea, nighttime squid hunting in a bangka, a three-meter native Polynesian canoe, gliding across the deep, dark waters between two remote tropical islands, drifting across the surface in stillness and silence. Freshly caught squid shimmer and shift with glistening, vibrant hues, the full spectrum of the rainbow glimmering under their membranous skin, liquid lines of chameleon color.

With no moon, and no light above but for the twinkle of starlight, two distant lightning storms on the East and West horizons are an intense contrast to the voids above and below. No land as far as the eyes can see. Complete blackness envelops the waters beneath, with exception of the phosphorescent plankton, which flash and glimmer like sparks as the canoe glides through the waters, or when you softly stir the waters with your hand. The dividing line between jet black sea and black sky is wholly absent, so there's a sense of leisurely drifting through deep outer space nebulae, a synaesthetic, psychedelic experience, almost akin to sensory deprivation. 

The luminous arms of the Milky Way, usually only a faint trace across the sky while in cities, or even out in the countryside, shine as bright as Times Square overhead, an experience beyond words—envision the end sequence of Contact, or Kubrick's 2001.  

Not a typical Friday night — but a memorable one.


* Venturing out in the darkness, harpoon fishing in shallow nighttime coastal waters, six meters deep, with nothing but a gas lamp hanging outwards over the front of the canoe. Nighttime snorkeling through reefs, surrounded by countless species of sealife and coral ― cliffs and caves, flora and fauna, schools of fish, from tiny as needles, to larger than a great dane ― millions of intertwined species, an interplay of flourishing ecosystems locked in singular symbiosis ;

* Relaxing in a quiet Boracay beach villa under a full moon, the sand underneath as milky white and as soft as talcum powder, gliding like silk between your toes ;

* Soaking up fresh misty air in the mountains of Da Lat, relaxing at a jungle beach, or motorcycling on sport bikes along cliffside jungle highways, tracing the coastline through Na Trang ;
* Venturing out by speedboat through the Mekong Delta, or zooming and veering on Vespa scooters through ridiculously chaotic midnight Saigon traffic ;
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You can answer the following question:

Where do you see yourself in 20 years? Imagine your 'golden self,' your ideals realized—you've accomplished everything you've set out to do, and you have achieved the wildest of your dreams.
Where are you, what are you doing? What's next?