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34 Austin, TX Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–100
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:21pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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Well, I've been here for a year and a half now, so time to revise the profile text so as to avoid seeming disingenuous, I suppose. I'm not any more a Texan than when I moved here from Boston (I do like certain aspects of my life to rhyme), but I do feel like an Austinite, even if a transient one without a long term investment. I appreciate that there's at least one lovable and liveable city in the South ;) (I grew up in the dirty South, so I feel I have a license to playfully - or not - disdain it)

I love meeting native Texans, especially scruffy ones, as wells as dynamic people from all over. Thinking and existing outside of the American capitalist box is essential.

transient romantic. sporadically social introvert. conversationalist over curry.

I'm semi-nocturnal and insist this isn't a sign of immaturity. I like contemplative quietude, but there is also room for infernal noise in my life.

I like people who can swing highbrow and low. Love the abstruse and unconventional but detest the pretentious or self-important.

I am quite a peaceable person, though I do fantasize about striking a match to Hollywood. I prefer not to engage with popular culture, even ironically- for the most part, though I did get a twisted kick out of that "Toddlers and Tiaras" episode.

Cinema is a passion. No TV unless coerced.

I'm no longer traumatized by my social awkwardness. I laugh at it.

I write (profile text is NOT my forte). I view and review independent films. If I mention Violet Crown I am likely talking about the cinema, not the bar, though the bar has its charm, as well.

Transience and being outdoors; there's so much to see.

Left of left in the abject world of American politics.

I don't wish for any topic to be off limits. I'd rather be uncomfortable than oblivious.
What I’m doing with my life
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writing (short fiction, film criticism), wandering, wondering, gallivanting, gyrating, applying (MSW)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being a pedestrian in a driver's world, bad goodbyes, pretending not to be american when overseas, certain aspects of intimacy . ok,let me say that I am truly uncomfortable with talking myself up (probably one reason I don't excel at job interviews). I hope to buddha i am good at written articulation, but other than that, I'd rather let you discern...
The first things people usually notice about me
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i gots some blue eyes and sum fuzz on me cheeks (which has its own feature). sincerity. mental drifting.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Another Country (James Baldwin), Love and Other Obstacles (Aleksandar Hemon), The Sheltering Sky (Paul Bowles), The Age of Reason (Jean-Paul Sartre), Mysterious Skin (Scott Heim), and special mention to Naomi Klein's kickass anti-capitalist nonfiction

recently enjoyed reads by: Jhumpa Lahiri, Naguib Mahfouz, Nathan Englander, Colum McCann, Toni Morrison, Andrew Holleran, Sayed Kashua, Hari Kunzu, James Purdy

Recent finds (or re-discovers) on heavy rotation: Still Corners, Ex Cops, Geographer, Typhoon, My Jeruslem, Heartless Bastards, Amy Lavere, Sarah Jaffe (a Texan songstress extraordinaire!), Wye Oak, Ramona Falls, Crocodiles, Suuns, Weekend, Deap Vally (for when feminine ferocity is in order), The National, Laura Mvula, Yellow Ostrich, Azad

Longtime Favorites: Kristin Hersh/Throwing Muses, The Rosebuds, Fruit Bats, Grizzly Bear, Emily Haines/Metric, Cults, Damien Jurado, Low, Neko Case, Grant Lee Buffalo/Phillips, The Duke Spirit, Ghost Society, Antlers, I Love You But I've Chosen Darkness, Pains of Being Pure at Heart, Bear Hands, Beach House, Beach Fossils, Great Lake Swimmers, Jose Gonzales/Junip, Trembling Blue Stars, Camera Obscura, Elliot Smith, Blood Orange, Metronomy, Hospital Ships, The Black Keys, TV on the Radio, John Grant, St. Vincent, Real Estate, Miniature Tigers, David Bazan/Pedro the Lion/Overseas, Cursive, the Comas/Electric Owls, Midnight Movies, Middle Brother, Deer Tick, Deerhunter, Johnette Napolitano/Concrete Blonde, A Place to Bury Strangers, Voxtrot, Wild Beasts.....many more. I'm a loyal fan and am always looking for new stuff

Film (Directors): Gregg Araki, Hirokazu Kore-eda, Todd Solondz, Claire Denis, Catherine Breillat, Nuri Bilgi Ceylan, Tsai Ming Liang, Todd Haynes, Michael Glawogger, Lisa Cholodenko, Joao Pedro Rodrigues, Kelly Reichardt, Wong Kar Wai, Fatih Akin, Francois Ozon, Jennifer Baichwal

Films (Recent/Relatively Recent): My Brother the Devil, Facing Mirrors, Yossi, Weekend (Andrew Haigh, though the absurd Godard one is lovely, as well), Meek's Cutoff, A Separation, Goodbye (Mohammed Rasoulef), Policeman, White Material, A Dangerous Method, Martha Marcy May Marlene, Circumstance, Margot at the Wedding, Dark Horse, Whore's Glory, Moonrise Kingdom, Ai Wei Wei: Never Sorry
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Indian food,multiculturalism,mobility,amicable correspondence,cinema,prose (i suppose)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to seduce terrorists
who i want to be
refugees and asylum seekers
NYC, for better or worse
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
depends which portal i slither through...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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contrast titillates me
You should message me if
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i seem interesting and you have approximately good intentions, if you are secretly a Texan (or openly an Austinite)