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Solastalgic

27 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:03am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Used up
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Dropped out of space camp
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Firstly, I'm in an open relationship with a wonderful, smart and kind human. If that's not ok I wish you luck on your search, I'm not the person for you.

I'm a queer white cis guy, he/him or neutral pronouns. I have fairly radical left politics and identify with anarchist ideology.

I'm an 'interesctional'/inclusive feminist. I value anti-oppressive politics, have no time for racist, homophobic, transphobic, sexist, abelist etc bullshit - I will call you out and you probably wont like me.

Definitely not a manarchist/mansplainer and prefer reading theory from female identified/poc sources. No old dead white men!

Committed to the real talk!

This all sounds so serious but I'm really just a goof, don't take many things seriously and like to let things happen

Looking for rad dates and new friends (whatever form that takes)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to figure that out. I'm in school at George Brown in the Community Worker program (starting again in Jan).
I like to build things and take things apart.
Trying to start bands, playing guitar and bass.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Living in my head, being a dork, over-thinking everything.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I haven't asked. I assume it's the tattoos. I'm regularly told I look like someone else
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
- I have sporadic taste in books, I mostly enjoy non-fiction, satire and speculative fiction... Vonnegut, Orwell, Andrea Smith, Jack Halberstam, Dean Spade are some favourites.
- I have a hard time picking favourites, as long as there's no Tokyo drifting I'll probably be down - Fubar, Manufactured Landscapes, and anything a) cheesy b) ridiculous
- Arrested Development, Ugly Americans, The IT Crowd, The Venture Bros., Archer, Community
- I have eclectic taste in music, if there's a good riff or hook and no auto-tune I'll probably be cool with it. Andrew Jackson Jihad, Mountain Goats, Propagandhi, Cursed, Godspeed!, Johnny Hobo. Mostly punk, folk punk, indie or whatever and listen to the CBC a lot.
- Burritos, Indian, Thai, Pizza and Ethiopian are at the top of my list but I'd have a hard time choosing. I looove to cook and bake, especially vegan/veg
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
List of things I'd really like to have but aren't essential to survival:
My Cats
Guitar
Camera
Human Interaction
Internet and a way to access it
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Social justice issues, settler colonialism, decolonization, mental health, the state of the world, prioritizing my friendships, vulnerability and how fucking rad it is, why folks act the way they do, what my next project will be, personal growth, what to eat,
Just listened to this song:
I know how to use a power drill I know how to use a saw
I know how to build a fire I know how to break the law
I didn't ask your opinion I'm not looking for advice
I know you were born with a penis but that doesn't make you right
I already read that book and you remember it wrong
I have experience with that type of situation and you're not right.
Fridge Scum - Mansplaining
*note - this song is not intended to equate having a penis with being a man. Not everyone with a penis is a man and this song is not directed at everyone with a penis. This song is directed at specific cisgendered men who feel the need to constantly remind us that they have penises and we don't. This song is about mansplainers. Also not everyone who mansplains is a cis dude.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually at a show or with friends, alternately at home with my cats, smoking pot and scrolling through tumblrs.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
ACAB? So edgy, right?
Not so private: I have a cat tattoo
You should message me if
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You think we'd be able to have a decent conversation
You'd like to meet in person
You want to watch cartoons and or smoke pot with me
You want to go to shows
You want to jam
You want to?
You have more to say than 'Hey, what's up?'
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