Before her, I was married for 29 years to a lady who had nerve damage and was in constant pain and for a 7 year stretch, she spent about 25 weeks a year in hospital. From these two women. I learn a great deal about caring and compassion.
I am very laid back and I don't let most things upset me.
I hold values that I learned from the era I grew up in and try to apply them.
I believe that a woman by your side is the greatest gift a man can have. I believe that one of the main reason to be in a relationship is because you want to and can bring happiness to her. Loving her does not start when the tv goes off. You show her every day how important she is to you. A card to say you love her, phone calls because you miss her, holding doors for her, protecting her in a crowd, a hug and kiss. Pay attention when she talks as she has something she wants to tell you and it is important to her.