I am an admittedly shy guy. If you see something you like or just want someone to chat with, drop me a line! Once the conversation gets going, I thaw pretty quickly... usually. :-P

**Minor update**
I'm not looking to put a bunch of notches on my bedpost. If all you want is a roll in the hay, keep looking. Friends with benefits are much better as just plain friends. I never thought I would actually have to say that as a guy, but it is what it is.

I'm also not looking to find my eternal soul mate. If something were to develop out of a friendship, that's awesome, but I'm not chasing it. I would rather gain friends than lose girlfriends.
** End update **

I am just now coming out of a long marriage that ended quite suddenly. The thought of dating again is frightening and incredibly daunting. Right now, my focus is finding myself & moving on with my life.

I am a father to two darling girls who mean the world to me. I have them half of the month, so that limits my free time. A small price to pay for my pride & joys.

I'm working on getting some pictures uploaded. I'm usually the one behind the camera, so this should be interesting & fun!

Looking to establish myself once again. My social circle was anemically small & I am looking forward to making new friends.

My time with my girls is extremely precious and they always comes first. I sincerely hope you understand.

Making jokes in light of the most serious of moments.

Working the heck out of a computer (it's my job, after all)

Grilling a mean steak.

Listening before opening my mouth.

Honestly... I have no idea. Hopefully, it is my humor.

Books.... Hmmmm

I will read just about anything. I love the feel of a book in my hands.

I'm a sucker for James Kavanaugh. I have a soft spot for some escapist David Eddings, too.

Music - Alternative, Punk, New Wave, New Folk, Celtic, Classical, more more more

Favorite Movies - Singles, The Cutting Edge, Slapshot, comic book inspired movies, Dead Poets Society

1. My girls
2. Books
3. The stars
4. Music
5. Good food
6. Good beer

Right now... What am I going to do with the rest of my life. Quite a task, actually.

Depends on the weekend... Either spending time with my girls or relaxing.

I'm an open book. You just have to ask the right questions & not be afraid of the answers.

You're a girl (yeah... That really helps)
You're plus/minus 10-12 years in age
You're looking for friendship
You can handle the fact my girls come first
You can handle the fact I have an Ex in my life & I have to deal with her for my girls
Open minded
Not expecting me to jump into anything serious