I'm not looking to put a bunch of notches on my bedpost. If all you want is a roll in the hay, keep looking. Friends with benefits are much better as just plain friends. I never thought I would actually have to say that as a guy, but it is what it is.
I'm also not looking to find my eternal soul mate. If something were to develop out of a friendship, that's awesome, but I'm not chasing it. I would rather gain friends than lose girlfriends.
** End update **
I am just now coming out of a long marriage that ended quite suddenly. The thought of dating again is frightening and incredibly daunting. Right now, my focus is finding myself & moving on with my life.
I am a father to two darling girls who mean the world to me. I have them half of the month, so that limits my free time. A small price to pay for my pride & joys.
I'm working on getting some pictures uploaded. I'm usually the one behind the camera, so this should be interesting & fun!