I am fiercely independent and would want my partner to be the same. I tend to joke at the rough times, sarcastic at others, and quiet when needed. Funny thing... I am a closet introvert but work hard at being social and talkative.
I am an admittedly shy guy. If you see something you like or just want someone to chat with, drop me a line! Once the conversation gets going, I thaw pretty quickly... usually. :-P
As a full time single father, I'm currently looking more for friends than lovers. I'm not expecting to find my eternal soul mate, but if something were to develop out it, that's awesome. I would rather gain friends than lose girlfriends.
I'm not Adonis and I'm not looking for Aphrodite. We all have our flaws. If you judge the book by its cover, you're seriously missing out.
I'm not looking to put a bunch of notches on my bedpost. If all you want is a roll in the hay, keep looking. Friends with benefits are much better as just plain friends. I never thought I would actually have to say that as a guy, but it is what it is.
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