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  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Asian, Indian, Other
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Urdu (Fluently), Hindi (Fluently)
My self-summary
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In short: I'm a photographer in London, a secular humanist, sceptic, love science & nature, one chromosome pair short of a chimpanzee, curious about human sexuality and all the weird kinks that make us tick. Owned by a cat.

Hi! Born in Wales but in love with this city - the museums, the bars, the weekend markets, the galleries. There's never a dull moment. I'm in constant need of mental stimulation and this city gives plenty of it!

I'm described by my friends as very friendly, kind, laid back, easy going, charming and smart. I don't take life too seriously (but take stuff I do seriously!) and hold very liberal views. I'm sex positive, pro-choice, pro-LGBTQ, consider myself a feminist, love freethinkers and abhor homophobes, racists, and misogynists.

I have a weak spot for people who love cats 😻

Not sure what else I can say, just drop me a message and say hi :)
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently working as an interior and fashion photographer for a company but would love to have my own studio one day in some trendy part of London!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I was told I'm GGG. I had to Google that up...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Why am I holding a rope and a shovel?

And I look younger for my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Shows - Star Trek, The Walking Dead, The Big Bang Theory, Not Going Out, Would I Lie To You, Storage Wars, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad

Movies: Labyrinth, O Brother Where Art Thou?, Star Trek, Shawshank Redemption, Jason and the Argonauts, Wadjda, Alien series, LOTR, Tarantino films, Amar Akbar Anthony.. way too many to list.

Books - The Caged Virgin, God is Not Great, The End of Faith, The God Delusion , The Age of Reason, I Am Malala, Pakistan by Imran Khan, Resident Evil 1-3 novels. Few others. Mainly non-fiction. Currently reading Joseph Anton.

Music - Boyce Avenue, Burberry Acoustic, Motown music (Fitzgerald, Sinatra), Bob Dylan, Bollywood (Kishore Kumar, Muhammad Rafi), Pakistani music bands like Jal and Roxen, Classical (Love a bit of Mozart's Requiem).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A camera (any camera)
Dax my kitten
My sofa and blanket
Tesco's Angel Cake
The Walking Dead (What was life like before this show??)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Photoshoots, ideas for short films and what I want to do for my next photography book.

And.. everything and anything. I have a hyperactive imagination and so zone out a lot, so much so that I once walked straight into a lamppost face first because I was busy fantasising. If you've seen Walter Mitty, you'll know what I mean..

Polyamory, open relationships, and threesomes :o And I should really read the Ethical Slut.
You should message me if
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you'd like and think we'll get along :)

Especially interested in hearing from fellow ex-Muslims / kafirs / apostates / infidels / heathens, and polyamorous people.