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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 34–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 29
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
When drinking
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Tagalog (Poorly)
My self-summary
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When people first meet me, they immediately think I'm sweet and nice. I'm a pretty happy person...usually with a smile on my face. I can be a little quiet until you get to know me. But those who actually know me understand my darker, effed-up., sarcastic side. I have a slightly twisted sense of humor.

I'm a hippie at heart. Love the Dead (don't hold that against me). Music is important to me and I love being introduced to new sounds. Lately, I've been listening to lots of Sam Cooke. I recently came across a CD compilation called Beg, Scream & Shout!. Amazing. Soulful and groovy. Highly recommend.

I wish I read more. Reading lately has been limited to cookbooks, not that it's a bad thing. I have a great collection of cookbooks and I dig perusing them for ideas.

I hate small talk, littering pisses me off and I still haven't found an olive I like.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Livin' the dream. After 15 years in the corporate/legal world, I quit my job to be a cook. It's pretty amazing and I'm having a blast. Total change of pace but I'm a tough cookie.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at finding parking spots and lost money on the street... truly. I'm also really good at parallel parking!

I love cooking but I think I'm better at baking. If you have a sweet tooth, we'll get along pretty well.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I usually have a silly grin on my face.

If you see me driving, I'm probably singing like an idiot or getting my groove on.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love all types of music (except country and I'm not talking about old deep, blue grassy country. More like new country if that makes sense. Yuck)... favorites include grateful dead, tribe called quest, feist, erykah badu, the roots, aretha franklin, ting-tings, beck, beatles, nina Simone, broken bells, willie Nelson, beatles, little dragon, arcade fire, oh land, tennis, santigold, sharon jones, Sam cooke, black keys, rolling stones, all kinds of reggae. I love, love, love live music.

books... like water for chocolate, namesake, water for elephants, kite runner, omnivore's dlilemma and any cookbook. For authors -Nick Hornby, Alice Walker, Wally Lamb, Jhumpa Lahiri, Richard Brautigan, Tom Wolfe, Jack Kerouac. I read more cookbooks than novels right now.

movies... the graduate, almost famous, before sunrise, chocolat , big night, high fidelity, juno, mostly martha, the station agent, whip it

food... all and any ethnic foods! the more authentic the better and I love spicy!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends and family
ipod - must have music
passport - off the beaten path, please
wine (really into Spanish reds right now)
my kitty who has 8 toes on each paw
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how badly i want a helicopter so i never have to deal with traffic again!

oh - and why oh why do so many men post the half naked, bathroom mirror picture. So strange and so not attractive!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
usually having dinner with some friends. if it's been a tough work week, then i'm at home with a movie and snuggling with my kitty, doing a little baking.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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nope... not just yet :-)
You should message me if
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You are open-minded, smart, sarcastic and funny, love the outdoors, road trips, laughing til your belly hurts, late night talk and morning sex. You should message me if you like brunch, seeing a foreign film, or laying around on a Sunday afternoon reading. I'm not looking for any drama...I'm a happy person looking for someone to be happy with...