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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-38
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Today – 11:38am
Relationship Type
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Dropped out of University
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This seems to get missed where it is mentioned at the bottom of the page and I don't wanna waste anyones time, so, straight up, I am poly. Now to the highlights:

Socially outgoing, relatively intelligent woman with a tendancy to 'make things happen' rather than wait for them to happen.

I like all the normal stuff, reading, cooking, gaming (pc and some tabletop) etc. Some of the not so normal stuff too. I don't have a lot of tolerance for bigots, idiots or Tories.

Fairly socially confident with a random shy streak that most people don't really notice. I like people and I like being around people but am content with my own company.

I love learning things and read a lot about random topics that take my interest although I am happiest when studying or on a course.

Very sexually liberal in a political as well as a practical sense.

And because I don't want to get missed in Keyword Searches, the username is indeed a reference to kink.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying it more than I ever have before. Who says your teens are your best years? Wouldn't do it again for all the money in the world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sigh. To be fair its my boobs. But if we get to the bit where talking happens I guess, confidence and that I am reasonably well spoken.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am not sure this stuff says a lot about a person really. I certainly don't make assumptions about who I will get on with based on music genre they are into or whatever.

But since a few people have said they find it helpful, here's a random list of things I like off the top of my head: Writers: Alex Garland, Oscar Wilde, Sarah Waters, Pat Califia, Nick Hornby, David Mitchell, Mitch Albom, Jeanette Winterson.

Books: Let the right one in, Wuthering Heights, Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe, Immortal companion, Carrie, Written on the body.

TV: Les Revenants, The Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, various classic brit comedy. Not really a big tv watcher.

Games: Portal, Fallout 3, Silent Hill 2, Fable 2, Path of Exile.

Films: Bound, Beauty and the Beast, Velvet Goldmine, Moulin Rouge, various J horror.

Music: Too much of a mixed bag to really name a genre or type, here are some random things I have played on my iPod recently: Keane, Tori Amos, Placebo, Slipknot, The Cast of Wicked, The Wurzels, Holst, Faithless, Savage Garden.

There, do you know more about me now?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Eggs, bread, milk, salt, pepper, cooking oil. Wait, that may be the recipe for French Toast. Will try again later.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whatever my most current obsession is. I go through phases. Recently it was Geocaching. Currently its Magic The Gathering.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...out as my alter ego, Logic-girl. Patrolling the streets and protecting the innocent residents of the North London suburbs from vile monsters and super villians such as 'Daily Mail Readers' 'BNP party members' and 'Anyone who reads heat magazine'.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I slept with cuddly toys for years after I first moved out of home because I wasn't allowed them on the bed as a kid and had always wanted to. Then I got a dog, which is better. Such a rebel. Grr!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have something to say. 'Nice pictures' or 'Hi' doesn't count as something.

You are a guy with long hair or a girl with short hair. You can also be a guy with short hair or a girl with long hair to be fair but I do tend to get my head turned by tomboyish girls and guys who get asked if they play guitar a lot.

Full disclosure: I am in a non monogamous relationship.

That in mind, if you are a genuinely bisexual, opened minded male, under 40, London or Kent based, who might like to play with a m/f couple, I would be interested in hearing from you.

Please do not contact me if you have ever voted Ukip, or if you are anti-vaccination.