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sugarfig

28 / F / Straight / Seeing someone

Norman, Oklahoma

Her Details

Last Online
May 6
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Aquarius
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Student
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Offspring
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm at the tail-end of my mid-twenties and loving every bit of it. Good chocolate makes me weak in the knees and a good gin & tonic makes my head glow.
I want to be a librarian when I grow up.
I share my apartment with two cockatiels.
I listen to NPR the way most people my age listen to music.
I truly love curling into the fetal position and reading a book and I have a love/hate relationship with chaining myself to a desk and writing short stories. This must've been why I decided to get an English degree.

(I'm also concerned about the copious amounts of "I" found in this)

I just moved to Norman to go to school and am really interested in making friends of all sorts. So if you're in the area and want to hang out, you should definitely message me. I need someone to show me this place! :)

Also, I am currently in a relationship which I am absolutely happy with and am not looking for anything other than meeting friends here. Seriously. Please keep this in mind when initiating communication with me. K, thx :)

I am cute, silly, and clumsy

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What I’m doing with my life
I'm in a masters program for Library Information Studies at OU and while it takes the majority of my life and energy right now, I like it and am excited about potentially being an archivist one day.
I like to spend my free time geocaching, hanging out with friends and family, eating ridiculously good meals, and drinking ridiculous amounts of fine spirits. :)
I also dote on two frenchie cockatiels and religiously water my lavender plants.

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I’m really good at
saying snarky things under my breath that will make you laugh in inappropriate situations.
Drinking gin and tonics with my bff dino_baby
oddly domestic stuff like sewing, baking, and decorating.
charming birds and babies.
listening and sympathizing.
giving termination cues for conversations that have gone terribly awry.
rambling for hours about endangered languages and dialect chains.
showing up for the activities we planned the night before, even if we made the plans at the bar, and I have a headache. Follow through is very important.

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The first things people usually notice about me
I have pretty eyes and I'm cute for a big girl.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A.) Grimm's Fairy Tales, Sula, Juniper Tree Burning, Extremly Loud and Incredibly Close, The God of Small Things, The Bonesetter's Daughter, Middlesex, Cat's Eye, Me Talk Pretty One Day,

B.) I'm not terribly into movies, but here is a short list: Home Alone (It's seriously one of my all time favorite movies lol) , I Heart Huckabees, Election, Documentaries
TV: Carnivale, Six Feet Under, The Office, Seinfeld, The Simpsons, Futurama

C.) Telefon Tel Aviv, Fiona Apple, Boards of Canada, Thievery Corporation, JViewz, Neon Indian

D.) Sushi, Mexican, or Mom's

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The six things I could never do without
My birds
alone time
comfortable bedding
that albatross I lovingly refer to as my phone
family & friends
the internet

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Other languages

Whether or not I actually closed my door, and if my birds are flying around outside right at that exact moment.

What my life would be like if I lived in different places. Like Tel Aviv or Lyon.

How the maintenance lady at work sleeps in the bathroom stalls and how I wish I could tell someone because I thik it's funny but I can't because I wouldn't want to get her in trouble.

Why I have such horrible time management skills.

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On a typical Friday night I am
Either taking it easy, catching up on homework, or enjoying food and drinks with good company.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like the theme song to that ridiculous show "Still Standing"

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I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 25–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, activity partners
You should message me if
you find me interesting, and you understand that bisexual doesn't mean sex-crazed-slut.

Your cockatiels are as awesome as mine.

You have a cool place to show me in Norman that isn't the inside of your pants. :)

DO NOT contact me to inquire about my oral sex skills or ask me to perform them on you. It is annoying, disgusting, and pretty demeaning. While I am in no way a prude, I don't find this sort of contact to be appealing and all it will get you is ignored or receiving a bitchy message back.

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