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42 Seattle, WA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 33–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Okay), Other (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)
My self-summary
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"available" : i am in a monogomish relationship with my lovely wife renegade_muse

now that the disclaimer is out of the way...

i like to make things.

i guess i would consider myself an artist, though a specific media eludes me. i dabble in drawing, painting, designing, photography and a lot more. i've spent time doing silver-work, lapidary, stained glass, stone carving. lately i've been trying to focus on creativity and use the time my work schedule gives me to make stuff. as you may have you've noticed, i also have an aversion to capital letters.

integrity, confidence, sense of humor, openness, creativity, positivity... these are things i feel strongly about. these are things i want in my life. these are things i aspire to be... or possess, or something like that.
i see myself as shy, but i know i'm a very social being. i enjoy interaction... but i think i respond more than i initiate, and that's part of why i'm here. i need to take more initiative. i need to reach out for what i want and not ride the wave so much.

so, that's a brief summary...

i'm sure i have more to say, but like i already stated, i'm shy.
guess you gotta ask...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
trying to live with passion and integrity, wanting to share that passion... for me mostly, but also for those i love.

trying to spend my time and energy on my art
getting away, when i can (not often enough)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
i think i'm good at a lot of things...
i like to use my hands alot, and
from what i'm told i have good hands
The first things people usually notice about me
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i guess my hat first.
then, aside from the fact that i'm not the tallest of the bunch, i'm often told about my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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devil in the white city - i love chicago history
the wild trees - amazing how recent the science is
american gods - briliant mythology... can't wait for hbo
guns, germs and steel - almost all of the info i knew before, just never put it together that way

flaming lips, andrew bird, beatles, parov stelar, broadcast...
the list goes on...

sushi - need i say more?
calamari - when done right
peanutbutter bacon burgers - again, need i say more?
stuffed portabella - sigh
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
not necessarily in order...

the ability to express myself
the ability to create
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
this one's easy...
other than that...
my art.

i'm also curious what the world would be like if there were no hypothetical questions...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
currently, Friday is my Thursday, and since my mornings are earlier than most, i'm usually in bed early... but there's usually time for cuddles.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
it may take time to formulate my answer, but i'm willing to admit anything.
ask me what you want...
You should message me if
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