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sugarssugar

41 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:18pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Okay), Other (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
a bit of clarity okc does not compensate for:
"bisexual" : i think heteroflexible is a more accurate term if one needed a label.
"available" : i am in a monogomish relationship with my lovely wife renegade_muse

now that the disclaimer is out of the way...

i like to make things.

i guess i would consider myself an artist, though a specific media eludes me. i dabble in drawing, painting, designing, photography and a lot more. i've spent time doing silver-work, lapidary, stained glass, stone carving. lately i've been trying to focus on creativity and use the time my work schedule gives me to make stuff. as you may have you've noticed, i also have an aversion to capital letters.

integrity, confidence, sense of humor, openness, creativity, positivity... these are things i feel strongly about. these are things i want in my life. these are things i aspire to be... or possess, or something like that.
i see myself as shy, but i know i'm a very social being. i enjoy interaction... but i think i respond more than i initiate, and that's part of why i'm here. i need to take more initiative. i need to reach out for what i want and not ride the wave so much.

so, that's a brief summary...

i'm sure i have more to say, but like i already stated, i'm shy.
guess you gotta ask...
What I’m doing with my life
trying to live with passion and integrity, wanting to share that passion... for me mostly, but also for those i love.

trying to spend my time and energy on my art
getting away, when i can (not often enough)
I’m really good at
i think i'm good at a lot of things...
i like to use my hands alot, and
from what i'm told i have good hands
The first things people usually notice about me
i guess my hat first.
then, aside from the fact that i'm not the tallest of the bunch, i'm often told about my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books:
devil in the white city - i love chicago history
the wild trees - amazing how recent the science is
american gods - briliant mythology... can't wait for hbo
guns, germs and steel - almost all of the info i knew before, just never put it together that way

music:
flaming lips, andrew bird, beatles, parov stelar, broadcast...
the list goes on...

food:
sushi - need i say more?
calamari - when done right
peanutbutter bacon burgers - again, need i say more?
stuffed portabella - sigh
The six things I could never do without
not necessarily in order...

the ability to express myself
the ability to create
intimacy
affection
integrity
humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
this one's easy...
sex.
other than that...
my art.

i'm also curious what the world would be like if there were no hypothetical questions...
On a typical Friday night I am
currently, Friday is my Thursday, and since my mornings are earlier than most, i'm usually in bed early... but there's usually time for cuddles.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
it may take time to formulate my answer, but i'm willing to admit anything.
ask me what you want...
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 33–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you've read this far...

anyway,
Neither of us will pursue any sexual interest until after we get to know you in real life, at least a little. And it’s unlikely that we will meet the first time unless we all (me+mine+you+yours) meet.

But we *are* very interested in meeting people and sparking new friend+moreships. I just put that disclaimer here so that you know that in the beginning at least, our intention is to meet you together.