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suifidelis

44 M Carrboro, NC

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:54pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegan
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Management
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, and might want more
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Risk-averse father of three, but also still wiling to take chances (just not with my kids). North Carolina native. UNC-CH, Kenan-Flagler, Harvard Divinity grad. Love music and books. Published author.
What I’m doing with my life
Recently separated but no drama. Just working and writing - cutting back on travel to be with the kids. Reading (a lot) and working on my MFA in fiction.
I’m really good at
Being a dad. Cooking. Making people laugh. Mixing margaritas. Making lists. Making mixed tapes (I guess now they're called playlists).
The first things people usually notice about me
My height. My smile. My head phones. My foul mouth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Wow. I wish we could pull this over from FB. I like nearly all types of music but prefer rock (GBV, Dinosaur Jr., Sebadoh, Stones, Hop Along, T54, Iceage, Built-to-Spill, Jawbreaker, The XX, Pity Sex, Bon Iver, Vampire Weekend, Death Cab, VU, Beach House, Best Coast) bluegrass and alt-country (Whiskeytown, Son Volt, Richard Buckner, Lucinda Williams, etc.) outlaw country (Merle and Willie) and jazz (Monk, Mingus, Billie Holiday, Sarah Vaughn). Also listen to WXDU, WXYC, and Sirius XMU. Live music is almost always better than the album. Prefer vinyl to CD.

Last.FM Profile -> http://www.last.fm/user/hahvahd

Read fiction (Bulgakov, Amy Hempel, Hemingway, Borges, Cheever, Robert Boswell, Richard Ford, Andre Dubus, Andrea Barrett, James Salter, Chekhov, William Maxwell, Peter Orner, Isaak Dinesen, J.M. Coetzee, Alice Munro, Joan Didion, etc.), memoirs, travel (MFK Fisher, Bruce Chatwin), criticism, memoirs, biographies.

goodreads Profile -> https://www.goodreads.com/hahvahd

me -> http://williamscottwilliams.com/
The six things I could never do without
My kids.
My dogs.
Books.
Coffee.
Spotify.
Travel.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What is the right thing to do in any given situation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Maybe at a show (Cat's Cradle, 506) or at dinner with a book.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
If you just want to talk, chill out, get coffee or a drink, go see a band, shop for books, see a foreign flick.