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43 South Norwood, UK Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:45pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Dropped out of University
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm a slightly normal, but also slightly quirky guy from Croydon. I have a great love for music, have a very wide and varied taste and recently (27/5/13) saw Journey, Whitesnake and Thunder at Wembley Arena, which was excellent, but would've been even better if I'd gone with a lovely lady!
I believe in being myself, always and appreciate that in others too.
I am happy, geeky, and musical.
What I’m doing with my life
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Looking for work

In the evenings I read quite a bit, don't watch much TV these days, just a select few favourites, go out with friends to the pictures or to see local bands.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing, pretty good cook, always been good at following recipes but lately I've been experimenting with combinations of flavours and seem to get it right most of the time.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People who've known me a while normally notice that I'm half the size I used to be, having lost 7 stone in the last 2 years.
If I have my contacts in then people always notice my long eyelashes and my very blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to read, tend towards thrillers and some non fiction stuff, and have read a lot of horror and some sci fi in the past. Favourite authors would be Jeffrey Deaver, Michael Slade, Dean Koontz, Mark Billingham and James Patterson. Read my first Karen Rose book last year and now really into them and working my way through the lot from the start.
I've seen more movies than Michael Winner has had hot dinners. Used to have nearly 1,000 DVDs but sold most of them off on Amazon. Big fan of old B&W stuff, from Hitchcock to Ealing Studios, will watch anything B&W with Peter Sellers and/or Eric Sykes in it. Enjoy some modern comedies, especially Pegg/Wright and Kevin Smith and most of the Rogen/Carell/Rudd stuff. Will watch anything with De Niro, Pacino or Hoffman in it.
I could be hear all day listing music, love all 70's rock - Glam, Southern, Classic, Prog, it's all good. Big fan of 80's indie and some electronica, Smiths, The The, Cure, Mission, Depeche Mode, Joy Division, got a soft spot for old U2. Currently loving Mumford & Sons, Alter Bridge, reformed Creed, Biffy Clyron and the Slash solo album. Got into John Martyn and Richard Shundell last year, now 2 of my very favourites!
Not a fussy eater really, but tend to only eat prawns in chinese food, don't eat cabbage, sprouts, kale or green peppers, but do eat a lot of salad or veg to bulk out my meals, love cucumber, scallions, orange peppers, brocolli, cauliflower and sweetcorn. Favorite cuisines are Chinese and Mexican, but do enjoy Indian and Italian, and am a big fan of cooked breakfasts and pie and mash, I just can't them much on my healthy kick. Another update, Wagamama has become my favourite place to eat, with Nandos a close second!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Friends
My Bed
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why anyone other than the rich would ever be stupid enough to vote Conservative. We seem to back in the days of Thatcher!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Seeing who's doing what and then going with the flow
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Anything, I'm an open book.
You should message me if
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You want to chat, go and see bands or , talk crap til ridiculous hours of the morning