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29 Los Angeles, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:41pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
When drinking
Very often
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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i'm just a girl, standing in front of a computer, asking it to love her.

[i'm aaaalmost ready to scrap this allusory blurb, but like any undisciplined writer, my darlings die hard.]

but to sum up: i was reared in brownstone brooklyn, schooled in a bubble on chicago's south side, seasoned on the mean streets of france where every cobblestone is an ankle begging to be twisted, and then burped out onto the avenues of my native town for several more years of hard and perpendicular surfaces. all of which has stoked an active fantasy life consisting mostly of tableaus involving me in settings of extreme natural beauty. so, california.
What I’m doing with my life
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Fresh on arrival from nyc, so getting things sorted and enjoying the short-lived novelty of driving around.

worked in film industry for several years back home, so looking to keep exploring that. i have it on good intelligence that that's a thing here?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
conducting invasive google searches, starting campfires with damp wood, using the turnstile instead of the emergency exit, quelling awkward situations.
The first things people usually notice about me
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that i'm half an hour late.

also that I'm gregarious
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
wharton, nabokov, roth, cather, carver, zizek, steinbeck, roberto bolano, borges, and herge. i read Snow Crash recently (SO excellent!), and ditto for A Heart So White.

birdman, elizabethtown, loves of a blonde, the cook, the thief, his wife, and her lover, all the real girls, once upon a time in the west, until the end of the earth, hud.

ryan adams, duran duran, metric, wild flag, bob dylan, bruce springsteen, tom waits, wanda jackson, the hold steady, lucius, dvorak, and all the same podcasts as you. and i'm pretty undiscriminating when it comes to euro top 40 (see: but i haven't been listening to music lately? i don't know what that's about. i would totally be down for a listening party.

i like good olive oil, and fish served with the head still on. but also bodega tuna.

sour beers and whiskey sours.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-a room with a view
-good water pressure
-drinkable table wine or a decent cuppa (hydrate!)
-bready objects
-a good throw blanket
-solid meandering conversation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
million dollar ideas, things i cannot control, any marked change in the weather
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
having drinks, maybe hamburgers
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i'm concerned about my life trajectory.
You should message me if
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you always go swimming if a body of water is available

Or if you suspect we would have a lovely time! i really don't respond to blanket messages. this being said, I'm not looking to make a specific type of connection in particular... the internet is bad at communicating x factor, and who knows! if we don't have sexytime chemistry, maybe we can still get winedrunk and make up stories about the relationships of fellow bar patrons. or we can become best platonic friends who go touring wine country with our respective spouses and children when we are old and salt-and-peppered. alternatively, maybe we will make out against the side of a building and get reckless and be amazed.

either way, i'm trying to adhere to a no-ghosting policy. maybe we can make a mutual pact and do the universe a solid.