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sumpinstattooed

33 / F / bisexual / Married

Dayton, Ohio

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Ethnicity
Undeclared
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Dislikes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Dutch (Okay), French (Okay), Swahili (Poorly)

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I am snarky, adventurous, and inquisitive.

My Self-Summary

I'm an atheist and anarchist who loves books, philosophy, learning, tattoos, mountain gorillas, bonobos, black and white photography, abstract art, drives in the country, waterfalls, rain, trees and long talks about many subjects.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm writing a book about my travels, reflections, love, life and loss. I'm also going to be working on my Ph.D. in biological anthropology to study mountain gorillas and hominid evolution in greater depth.

I’m really good at

listening, getting to the nitty-gritty and not being distracted by flash, thinking (or over-thinking as the case may be), making fun of just about anything, school.

The first things people usually notice about me

are my tattoos.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: No Touch Monkey, Bad Science, Oral Sadism and the Vegetarian Personality, Devil in the White City, Idiot America, the RE/Search series, The Secret History of Emotion, many essays by Peter Kropotkin, and Why People Believe Weird Things.

Movies: Harold and Maude, Grosse Pointe Blank, 28 Days Later, Elling, Memento and just about anything with Christopher Walken.

Music: The Adverts, Plain Wrap, Nina Simone, Concrete Blonde, John Coltrane, Big Bad Voodoo Daddy, The Black Keys, Sharon Jones and the Dap Kings, The Pogues, Flogging Molly. Punk, reggae, zydeco, jazz, blues and on and on and on.

Stand-up: Jello Biafra (he's a bit like stand-up), Bill Hicks, Lewis Black, Eddie Izzard (old stuff), George Carlin and Ron White.

TV: Dexter, Battlestar Galactica, The Vicar of Dibley, Father Ted, Black Books, The Bing Bang Theory.
Favorite quote from TV: "Radiation burns -- a little mishap while I was building my own CAT scanner.... In fact, I was briefly able to see the inside of my sister's guinea pig, Snowball, before he caught fire. It led to an interesting expression in our house: "not a snowball's chance in a CAT scanner.""

Food: Indian and lasagna

The six things I could never do without

1. My husband
2. Peter Stokkebye tobacco
3. Books
4. Thunderstorms in the forest
5. My record player
6. Good coffee

I spend a lot of time thinking about

human rights, philosophy, how I can make things better, what's the point? Is there one? Stupidity, fear, arrogance.

Right now, I'm thinking about the fact that I just typed "revolution" into Google's search, and the first 50!!! results were products for sale!

On a typical Friday night I am

Lately...unpacking all my crap because we just bought our first home. Wanting to go out for drinks.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

is that I don't want to get more personal than I already have.

You should message me if

You've given me high ratings. I'm not rating back and forth any more because it's a waste of time, and no one ever seems to answer messages here.

Or, if you want to. Or to talk about science, philosophy, religion, stupidity, music, politics, tattoos or what matters most in life.

I'm very shy, at first, and it's quite difficult for me to start a conversation with someone I don't know. Once I know you, it's an entirely different story.