I'm attracted to people who have a commitment to why they're on this planet. (Hello, is that you?) My work is a lifelong, professional vocation that makes me really happy. Work isn't exactly work, for me. Maybe you do or make something you care deeply about, too. Maybe you can relate to someone who does.
Though I'm happily doing what I'm doing, I wouldn't mind meeting with someone who shares a lust for life (hi Iggy) and would like to cross orbits now and then. The IMing, chatting, veneer of OKC is not my joy. (Time is a commodity and I'd rather spend it in the not-virtual world with actual people.) The pitch: I'd love to meet a self-possessed, smarty-pants, creative guy with a good heart, a sense of irony, strong mind, trim body, and joyful spirit. I can offer the same.
Musts: a spark and a flame. Chemistry matters. When it's right, I can be stopped in my tracks by a look, a word, a touch, a kiss.