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53 / M / Straight / Single
San Francisco, CA
- Last Online
- Mar 7
- Black, White, Other
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from Ph.D program
- Rather not say
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes dogs
- English, Spanish (Okay)
Bike to work and love it.
Marin for hiking, swimming one day every week : )
Looking for new music.
Looking for dogs and babies to pet and smile at (respectively!).
keeping a beat (rhythm)
seeing both/all sides of an issue (empathy)
My legs, if I'm in shorts, have gotten a lot of comments.
I love to read but am usually so busy that I rarely read more than 30-60 minutes in a week! Currently reading The Power of Now as well as Blues and Chaos, the music writings of Robert Palmer.
Also like movies but rarely see any........if I ever have 2 hours to spend I'll usually chose another activity [however, cuddling up on a couch with a sweetie and watching a movie sounds much more appealing!]. Most recently watched Easy Rider for a second time....very enjoyable. Also recently watched Harold and Maude for the first time and loved it. Movies from past that would be on my favorites list would include Seven Samurai (?Kurosawa), Whale Rider, and Rabbit Proof Fence. On TV (which I currently do not have) I prefer documentaries, sometimes sports (if the playoffs), (but I'll admit, I did like 30 Rock).
Food: also eclectic taste. I love to eat. I also like to cook, so that's a good combo. Pretty basic needs......almost never spend big money on a 'fancy' meal out. Eat nearly anything but diet quite heavy on VEGGIEs, esp greens, YUM. But NOT a vegetarian (e.g., one of my favorite 'bases' for a meal is veggies sauteed with bacon).
Seriously, I don't like to become too attached to any material items. If there is something that I start to feel that I "cannot do without" then I may intentionally "do without it" for awhile. That said, I hate to be without my bike (when it's broken). I also hate to be without my car, only because that's my way of getting out of the city and into NATURE, wilderness, open space.
That's 4 items (kind of).......can't think of anything else other than perhaps my navel (that is how I try to maintain my ego at just the right degree of inflation/deflation).
I do think the world would be a 'darker' and less joyful place without nature (including wild animals), dogs and children.
And, okay....alone time may come right after water and food.
Finally, to approach this question from a different angle....what I always have in my backpack....just in case: arnica, curing pills, arm socks, and a headlamp (kind of a mini 'first aid/survival kit').
Though I DO enjoy thinking/planning about the dinner I'm gonna have any given night (I do love to eat!).
And during the right 'season', planning my next camping or backpacking trip.
And, related to this site, I wonder (don't really think about it a lot) how everybody can have a higher than average sex drive AND why my highest match percentages are very often with polyamorous women (!?)
...let's save the rest for later!
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 35–59
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
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