turn-offs: I'm big on honesty and communication so if you tend to lie or withold then we will more than likely not get along. Braggarts, people that don't know when to stop (be it being serious, joking, whatever) and just self-centered type people period. another thing I've noticed trending lately are men lying about their age. come on! if you say you're 35 but it's obvious you're pushing 50...I will definitely be ignoring you.

I'll be more attracted to your intelligence than I will your abs (although abs don't hurt)

I am intuitive, real, and not into games

job hunting in a city where good jobs are scarce, enjoying friends and living in the moment.

Knowing peoples intentions without them saying a word, listening and paying attention (people trip out on the things I'll remember they told me or said in passing), not judging, getting my way.

how tall i am, my smile/lips or my hair. it's so curly people always think it's a perm...do people even perm their hair anymore?

Books: currently reading The Debt to Pleasure by John Lanchester

Movies: fall, cinema paradiso, high art, all over the guy, but i'm a cheerleader, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, serial mom, the sweetest thing, shopgirl, under the tuscan sun, the human stain, i like it like that, the dinner guest, all about eve, giant, cabaret, clueless, silent hill, the village, what lies beneath, the cell, kissing jessica stein, 200 cigarettes, sliding doors, elling, in bruges, philadelphia story.

Music: Esthero, Jamiroquai, Hird, Thievery Corporation, Moloko/Roisin Murphy, Plej, Nightmares on Wax, Royksopp, Lykke Li, Basement Jaxx, Telepopmusik/Angela McCluskey, Faithless, Bonobo, Federico Aubele, Kruder & Dorffmeister, Erlend Oye, Daft Punk, Desyn Masiello, Maze, Adele, Foo Fighters, Kings of Leon, Coldplay, Sondre Lerche, Iron & Wine, Collective Soul, Toad the Wet Sprocket, Boozoo Bajou.

Food: I pretty much like anything and everything. There isn't much I haven't tried and there isn't much I don't like. Mediterranean, Italian, sushi, Korean, dim sum, and I'm a major snacker, you'll always find fresh basil, hummus, pate, jalapenos and various other snacks in my fridge.

WHAT ABOUT ART?!
Art: James Nares, Eno Henze, Jess, I'm a big fan of architecture as well. San Francisco has amazing architecture and I look forward to going to Spain and travelling all over on a tour of its architecture.

well, this is of course besides the obvious...friends, family, air, food, heart, lungs, the majority of my liver, etc...
1. my Breeze card
2. good champagne/gin/bourbon
3. laughter
4. superficial distractions (men w/ nice smiles, men w/ nice asses, boobs...)
5. books
6. good skincare/conditioner
7. art/design

what am I doing with my life, what do I want to do, where do I want to move next, and a lot of staring at asses and just drooling (I'm an ass man)

on a Friday night I could either be home just vegging w/ my dvr/hulu and some champagne, or I could be out and about hitting various events/bars (I've been known to be a hermit then go out one night and go to 6 different things in one night)

whatevah. ask me, I'll tell you

you think you can challenge me, make me think, can make me feel like a better person, i intrigued you, seduced you, you want to say hi, you have a question to ask, you want to know if I really am an open book (i am)