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26 M Allston, MA

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Last Online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary

I'm in a polyamorous relationship, and I've been with my primary partner for six years! If you'd like to join us or just talk to me it's all fine. There's plenty of love to go around
What I’m doing with my life
I'm turning off the light and opening curtains when the sun is out. I'm repeating personalized mantras and creating things to fill the universe with. I'm putting my files on back up for a later date, in a good way.

I'm a baguette machine in the wee hours of the night. Music and sketches and playing; who knew half our life would be interacting with machines?
I’m really good at
I'm good at being critical of our shitty, unglorious, unjustifiable past of murder and intolerance, and optimistic of our future which I believe will change in the next century as we slowly realize we're killing ourselves faster than we're killing the planet.

I'm good at pushing the boundaries of who or what I am. I'm good at staying up later than I should. I'm to be savored by one with a particular palette, not for the picky but for the elite.

I'm good at being happy. Happiness is a garden that you cultivate within yourself. Everybody experiences life; what makes us who we are is how we react to it
The first things people usually notice about me
As one of my best friends put it, I'm quiet and seem spiritual. Which is true, more or less. Talk to me, get to know me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Frank Herbert, Edgar Rice Burroughs, and Fyodor Dostoevsky are my three favorite authors. Also Jack Kerouac.

I listen to and play a lot of types of music. I try to be a good musician and listen to a variety of stuff: Passion Pit, Led Zeppelin, Florence + the Machine, Pink Floyd, Phoenix, MGMT, Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeroes, Jurassic 5, Phish, Kanye West, Dave Matthews Band, Philip Glass, Radiohead, Saxon Shore, RJD2, Umphrey's McGee, Ryan Montbleau Band, Common Market, Nickel Creek, Of Monsters & Men, Alanis Morisette, Modest Mouse, various electronica
The six things I could never do without
Internet. Meditation. Love. Imagination. Warm socks.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think about balance - balance between emotions and rationale. I want what's in between.

I think about machine iron presses and swamp sludge glamor around me. I wonder if Philip Glass spinning sufi in my basement is wrong? Whirling and swirling. Something in me longs, aches, screams to be released. I couldn't hold it back if I wanted to, and I did want to, but I enjoy releasing that Thing even more
On a typical Friday night I am
I always work Friday nights, but I'm usually a home body on my Saturday and Sunday nights off
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–29
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You like to bake or eat cookies and will eat them with me.

You're cynical of the past and present but optimistic for the future.

You have really nice legs. Or, you know, maybe you think I'd be fun to spend some time with.

You're interested in being in a polyamorous (not polygamist!) relationship, whether you're currently part of a couple, another poly chain, or single and are interested in being in a V/triad