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sundart

35 F Northampton, MA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 22
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Raindrops leave circle prints on the skylight glass, and I hear the wind in the tops of the oaks, the chickadees' chatter, the intermittent hush of heavy trucks rolling down my road. Elderberries paint a lingering bloom of fruit across the back of my tongue, but my teacup is, alas, now empty.

My heart sparks and sings at these, and other things.

I'm poly, a pagan, a poet. I'm into all kinds of crafting, sustainability, writing (particularly fantasy fiction and poetry), reading, gardening, and cooking. (Those last two work well together!) I love eating locally. I'm the stay-at-home mom of a pre-schooler, so I haven't had as much time lately for some of the things I love, like taking long walks in nature by myself or with a quiet companion, or a good game of Scrabble or Dominion. But the little one and I do get in plenty of hikes to nearby creeks.

In 2011, I did a photo-a-day project at http://shineandhowl.com/project365/.

Finally found out what my years of chronic forearm pain were all about. Currently doing PT about it, with hopes for more ability and activity soon! Questing my way through my day with HabitRPG.com.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm trying really hard to live, love, learn, grow, and eat my vegetables. With varying levels of success, depending on the day.

I love DDR and Rock Band (vocals only) because it means I can play video games again! Sweet! I also spend free time watching shows on Netflix, spectating as my husband plays video games (Bastion was pretty awesome), going for walks, and reading, reading, reading!

All that free time is squeezed in amongst 6-10 hours a day in charge of a preschooler. :) Which can also be fun, but requires a mountain of patience!
I’m really good at
Slicing a loaf of bread evenly, egregiously organizing, and words. My superpower is remembering where I last saw something.

I'm really bad at wrapping presents. My presents come out looking like they were wrapped by a drunken monkey. Luckily, gift bags exist.
The first things people usually notice about me
Well, it won't be my thick glasses or long hair anymore as of April! I'm into a whole new look.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite authors include Barbara Kingsolver, Starhawk, Jaqueline Carey, Anne Bishop, Garth Nix, Elizabeth Bear, Monica Furlong, Charles deLint, Patricia McKillip, Robin McKinley, Rosemary Kirstein, Lois McMaster Bujold, Patrick Rothfuss, Wendell Berry, Michael Pollan, and Diane Duane. Recently wowed by The Body Sacred by Dianne Sylvan.

A super-brief cross section of favorite movies: Grosse Pointe Blank, Labyrinth, The Goonies, Star Trek IV, Pirates of the Carribean, The Addams Family, Who Framed Roger Rabbit?, Spaceballs, Office Space, Tangled, and O Brother Where Art Thou?

I've been recently watching Breakout Kings, Fringe, Royal Pains, and Stargate SG-1. Watching Game of Thrones with my husband (on season 3!), and re-watching the new Dr. Who with von, still on season 1.

My taste (and collection) of music runs the gamut from chick folk rock to goth-industrial, trip-hop, classic rock, new age, and 80's music. I adore synthpop. Recent faves include The Mynabirds, Neko Case, MS MR, and Policia. Also the Bastion soundtrack. Really enjoyed the podcasts from Press Start to Continue (a local, video-game music radio show). I'm also in the process of catching up on the past 5 or so years of goth music I've missed... I'm really into Assemblage 23's "Spark" and VNV Nation's "Carry You" at the moment.

I love food. There are few foods I do not love. There are a few I should not eat, as I have some allergies. But in January I love blood oranges. In February, Sidehill farms yogurt. In March, fresh greens, especially wild ones growing in my yard. In April, eggs. In May, asparagus! In June, strawberries. In July, blueberries. In August, tomatoes!! In September, applesauce. In October, Delicata squash. In November, meats from Hettie Belle Farm. And in December, homemade bread. Also, I often combine herbs and brew original tea blends. Mmmmm. And yes, not only do I love local, seasonal food, I did just make a joke involving The Very Hungry Caterpillar. :D
The six things I could never do without
The people who love me. My cat. The outdoors. Books. Music. And fresh produce. Whether it's a pint of strawberries from the farmer's market or a sun-warmed tomato out of my garden, I am *such* a fan.

Also, my family. But they fall under item one, I hope!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Managing my household, my unwritten novel, turning my lawn into a garden of herbs and perennial vegetables, what to cook next, whatever book I'm in the middle of, plans and projects for the future, my posture (thanks to my physical therapist), and getting things on my to-do list done.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home. Like right now, for instance. I'm often to be found reading, or on the computer. I'm kind of a homebody, honestly. The right person could easily coax me out to dinner, or to their home for snuggles, though.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I aspire to be the one you notice because of my unusually good posture. I am striving to develop the grace of a tiger, the poise of a queen.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 25–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are a writer, or a poet, or into sustainable living. You are pagan, or excited about nature. You're poly, and want to talk to someone else who's making it work. You like to cook or garden and want to talk about it. Actually, I'm willing to talk to anyone who's intelligent and has a sense of humor.

I want to open up my web of relationships again, but right now I don't have much free time to spare. I believe strongly that one of the things that fuels a successful poly lifestyle is making sure everyone gets what they need. If you're looking for your one and only, it's probably not me, unless your life is already very full! I would enjoy dating again, though, and I am especially interested in hearing from women!!

I always enjoy finding new friends. Are you the next one? :)