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sundart

36 Northampton, MA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 28–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:46am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Raindrops leave circle prints on the skylight glass, and I hear the wind in the tops of the oaks, the chickadees' chatter, the intermittent hush of heavy trucks rolling down my road. Elderberries paint a lingering bloom of fruit across the back of my tongue, but my teacup is, alas, now empty.

My heart sparks and sings at these, and other things.

I'm poly, a pagan, a poet. I'm into sustainability, writing (particularly fantasy fiction and poetry), reading, gardening, and cooking. (Those last two work well together!) I love eating locally.

Questing my way through my day with HabitRPG.com, and encouraging others to live a full and engaged life whatever their challenges with my monthly Living Vividly challenges there.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm trying really hard to live, love, learn, grow, and eat my vegetables. With varying levels of success, depending on the day.

Stay-at-home mom-ing, writing a fantasy novel, and immense amounts of medically required exercise take up a lot of my time. The rest I fill with vibrant connections, walks in the autumn woods, and cup after cup of delightful teas.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Slicing a loaf of bread evenly, egregiously organizing, and words. My superpower is remembering where I last saw something.

I'm really bad at wrapping presents. My presents come out looking like they were wrapped by a drunken monkey. Luckily, gift bags exist.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well, it won't be my thick glasses or long hair anymore as of April! I'm into a whole new look.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite authors include Barbara Kingsolver, Starhawk, Jaqueline Carey, Anne Bishop, Garth Nix, Elizabeth Bear, Monica Furlong, Charles deLint, Patricia McKillip, Robin McKinley, Rosemary Kirstein, Lois McMaster Bujold, Patrick Rothfuss, Wendell Berry, Michael Pollan, and Diane Duane. Recently wowed by The Body Sacred by Dianne Sylvan.

A super-brief cross section of favorite movies: Grosse Pointe Blank, Labyrinth, The Goonies, Star Trek IV, Pirates of the Carribean, The Addams Family, Who Framed Roger Rabbit?, Spaceballs, Office Space, Tangled, and O Brother Where Art Thou?

I've been recently watching Doctor Who, Sherlock, Fringe, and Stargate SG-1.

My taste (and collection) of music runs the gamut from chick folk rock to goth-industrial, trip-hop, classic rock, new age, and 80's music. I adore synthpop. Recent faves include The Mynabirds, Neko Case, MS MR, and Policia. Also the Bastion soundtrack. Really enjoying the podcasts from Press Start to Continue (a local, video-game music radio show). I'm also in the process of catching up on the past 5 or so years of goth music I've missed... I'm really into Assemblage 23's "Spark" and VNV Nation's "Carry You" at the moment.

I love food. There are few foods I do not love. There are a few I should not eat, as I have some allergies. But in January I love blood oranges. In February, Sidehill farms yogurt. In March, fresh greens, especially wild ones growing in my yard. In April, eggs. In May, asparagus! In June, strawberries. In July, blueberries. In August, tomatoes!! In September, applesauce. In October, Delicata squash. In November, meats from Hettie Belle Farm. And in December, homemade bread. Also, I often combine herbs and brew original tea blends. Mmmmm. And yes, not only do I love local, seasonal food, I did just make a joke involving The Very Hungry Caterpillar. :D
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The people who love me. My cat. The outdoors. Books. Music. And fresh produce. Whether it's a pint of strawberries from the farmer's market or a sun-warmed tomato out of my garden, I am *such* a fan.

Also, my family. But they fall under item one, I hope!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Managing my household, my unwritten novel, turning my lawn into a garden of herbs and perennial vegetables, what to cook next, whatever book I'm in the middle of, plans and projects for the future, my posture (thanks to my physical therapist), and getting things on my to-do list done.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home. Like right now, for instance. I'm often to be found reading, or on the computer. I'm kind of a homebody, honestly. The right person could easily coax me out to dinner, or to their home for snuggles, though.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I aspire to be the one you notice because of my unusually good posture. I am striving to develop the grace of a tiger, the poise of a queen.
You should message me if
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You are a writer, or a poet, or into sustainable living. You are pagan, or excited about nature. You're poly, and want to talk to someone else who's making it work. You like to cook or garden and want to talk about it. Actually, I'm willing to talk to anyone who's intelligent and has a sense of humor.

I want to open up my web of relationships again, but right now I don't have much free time to spare. I believe strongly that one of the things that fuels a successful poly lifestyle is making sure everyone gets what they need. If you're looking for your one and only, it's probably not me, unless your life is already very full! I would enjoy dating again, though, and I am especially interested in hearing from women!!

I always enjoy finding new friends. Are you the next one? :)