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30 M Dulwich, United Kingdom

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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
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Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
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My self-summary
Outgoing and quirky young man, heavily into music and certain kinds of sartorial vibes. Big on good times and smiles. Very left wing by the way, but at the same time never get overly dogmatic, nor do I think that I'm superior to others*. We're all on this planet to get along, so act accordingly, that's how I see it.

*Unless you happen to be racist Tory misogynist.
What I’m doing with my life
Ensuring I eat three square meals a day and stay highly caffeinated. Also seen in the public sector uttering a few profanities here and there.
I’m really good at
Dancing. Allegedly. I've been known to throw shapes after a few drinks. Playing music to people. Not in the Norman Cook sense, I couldn't care less about being "down with the kids" and jumping up and down in the DJ booth with an invisible egg whisk in my hand, I just like playing good tunes to nice people and making them dance. I also make pretty nice samosas so I'm told, and I've been told my chicken curry is "banging" so to speak. I also dabble in a bit of painting as well, mainly patterns and illustration, claim to fame is exhibiting art in the same exhibition as Peter Blake.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music is a HUGE passion of mine by the way, just so you know. Seriously, if you could define me in three words it would be "Likes black music". I veer mainly towards 60's/70's/80's soul, ideally rare groove and disco, a bit of Northern Soul and Motown. Partial to a bit of punk and new-wave (a prized possession is my signed Clash album, woo!), and I do have a soft spot for hip hop. Skinhead reggae is mint. I think the best way to describe me is through tunes, so here goes;

Love playing records, but only in a part time capacity, I also have been known to play the guitar badly
I'd say I have a passing interest in graphic novels and religiously read 2000 AD and Judge Dredd. Films can range anywhere, from tacky to art house. It's all good. Very much into geeky TV, so the usual; Game of thrones, Walking Dead etc. Book-wise, I dig a lot of Neil Gaiman, Allan Sillitoe, Zadie Smith, Colin MacInnes, George Orwell, Hanif Kureshi, Albert Camus, Graham Greene. Anything historical rocks my boat as I'm an ex history and politics student.
The six things I could never do without
Music, and by that I mean what I like.
Art and art related shenanigans
Good food - You name it, I'll try it.
Cups of tea - Caffeine is my co-pilot.
My glasses - Honest to god they're prescription.
Clothes - Love what I wear.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
All sorts of stuff, such as how amazing is it that puppies are born without vision because even from birth they are blind to the haters.

Music and clothes. Obsessively.

Is it really worth debating with Right-wing trolls on Cif?
On a typical Friday night I am
Dancing, drinking, and dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once sent someone on a fake job interview by prank calling them. In my defence, he was a total knob.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you've made it this far and didn't throw up.

Also if you have a cineworld pass and wanna hang out. Or if you are on Orange as that covers the Wednesday thingy 2-4-1 deal.

If the originators of this site wouldn't accuse you of cultural appropriation;