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54 F Newton Center, MA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 15
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs

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My self-summary
Hi guys! Thanks for visiting my profile and good luck to you.

Looking for someone to have fun with, friend and lover, maybe it's you? Who knows where life will take us, could be short or long term, let's see what happens! I'm feeling lucky because I am sure that someone interesting is out there. I could be convinced to settle down but at the same time I see no reason not to have fun in the meantime. What is most important to me is connection, honesty sense of closeness, ease of communication, affection, a friend, all of which calm my mind. I'm not high strung, just always thinking.

I workout three to five days a week to stay fit, good HWP and you should be too. I'm knowledgeable about food, love to cook, farmers markets, dining on the patio in warm weather. I enjoy a good glass of wine now and then. I try to make good choices to support my fitness, mostly common sense, don't have a lot of rules about it. I like to eat out, clean up nicely and enjoy fine dining, neighborhood and ethnic restaurants as well. It's more about good conversation and someone's company than the food. Interested in exploring new places, where do you like to go?

I'm very intelligent and you must be also -- that could mean educated, but not necessarily. I like to be challenged intellectually.

My heart is open and full of love, different kinds of love and passion, yes that kind of passion also. Compassion, too, to friends and always to lovers, sometimes still can be starry eyed romantic, though time has tempered that just a little, realistic and always trying to be grounded and keep a healthy emotional balance.

I love dogs and have had many dog friends in my life. Maybe that's why I like to walk, for transportation or a stroll in the woods or on the beach or in the city. In warm weather I swim as much as possible, fresh or salt water, and I love my flip flops. Being in the water is relaxing and calms me, as does spirituality. I don't mean religious, more meditation, a little yoga. I do my best meditating in the hammock.

I'm down to earth. I respect other people, unfailingly honest and require the same in return. I have a strong sense of ethics and justice that I hope I never let go. I am emotionally strong and wish I didn't have to be, would like to be able to let my guard down, and someday I know I will be able to again. Not a drama queen, not into games!
What I’m doing with my life
Continuously reorienting myself, like a sailor chasing the wind. I am in a good place and believe that I'm on my way to an even better place. I'm happy and independent, keeping plenty busy, yet everything would be more meaningful if I had someone special to share it with. I have two daughters, 22 and 17, whom I enjoy greatly and I'm so lucky they are as supportive of my journey as I am of theirs.
I’m really good at
Being silly, kissing, understanding my intuition.
The first things people usually notice about me
My auburn hair and blue eyes, maybe my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
any Nelson DeMille, The Language of Flowers (but that's not why I chose sunflower), Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Coast Trail, Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid (I've seen it so many times that I lost count), Argo, Sliding Doors, Hidalgo, Sea Biscuit, Fantasia, live theatre and dance performance, musicals, museums, art galleries, being in cities, being in the country, mostly 70s/80s with more current here and there: Allman Brothers, Pink Floyd, Little Feat, steely Dan, Stevie Wonder, CSNY, Billy Joel, Paul Simon, Dan Hicks, Ry Cooder, Jorma Kaukonen, Eagles, Pink, Bruno Mars, Bach, Beethoven, Chopin, more, sushi, steak, Italian, Japanese, seafood, good corn on the cob, crisp apples, heirloom tomatoes, anything that's not too weird, 24, SYTYCD, Idol, Homeland, Glee.
The six things I could never do without
Water (I love water), my kids, swimming in the ocean or lakes, a dog friend, laying in the hammock staring at the sky and meditating, friends. Is that six already? I know, people aren't things, but they are so important. Collaboration. Wait, one more, kissing, really good kisses.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Meeting someone, being a good person, being humble enough, making the world a better place, why are so many people less than honest.
On a typical Friday night I am
Going to the gym, getting caught up from a busy week so I can get some R&R later in the weekend, unwinding. Sometimes out with a friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
No idea, but when I figure that out I probably am not going to write it here. You will have to get to know me if you want to find out.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 49–59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
If you are looking for a woman who is young at heart, genuine, unpretentious, passionate, intelligent, and think we would have great fun together. There is only one way to find out for sure. Say hello! I'd love to hear from you.