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55 Charlotte, NC Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36-65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 21
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 1" (1.55m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Quiet at first, not the life of the party and am fine with that being me. I don't do drama. Am pretty short and sometimes get frustrated when stuff is on the top shelf in the grocery and I have to ask someone to reach for me. I love to be outside, photographing nature, playing in the garden, going for walks...just being. I work hard but am able to sit quietly when I need that. I hate pedagogy. I sometimes operate outside the box...I get the job done, but it might not look like what the boss had in mind! I am creative. Thoughtful. Loyal. Low maintenance. My life right now could be described as simple, quiet and full of ease and joy.

I am funny, smart, and tenacious.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Reevaluating all the time; trying to learn to be always at peace in the moment; remembering to stop, breathe and enjoy all the little precious moments - knowing how quickly everything can change.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Conflict resolution. Listening and helping people work through their problems. Being calm in a storm. Entertaining myself with my camera, a good book, computer.... I am never bored.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Mischievous grin. Blonde hair. Eyes. Height.
Stunning brilliance. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Amy Tan, Michener - The Drifters, Stephanie Plum Series (Evanovich) for lighthearted fun, To Kill a Mockingbird, Secret Life of Bees, Mermaid Chair, Rumi poetry as done by Barks, anything by Pat Conroy - currently reading "The Water is Wide" and remembering why he is the best writer...more to come. Excited for summer time, reading time!
Movies...The 800+ movies I rated on Netflix...The Philadelphia Story, Crash, Local Hero, Across the Universe, Last King of Scotland, Anchorman, Capote, A Love Song for Bobby Long, Like Water for Chocolate, Hotel Rwanda and on and on.
Music...Dylan, Coldplay, Springsteen (will forever miss The Big Man), Snatam Kaur, The Weepies, Krishna Das, Stacey Kent, Ingrid Michelson, Sinatra, Luciana Souza, Amy Steinberg, Feist, Coltrane, Florence and the Machine, Adele, A Fine Frenzy is on constant play lately...a wide variety of stuff, very little rap or country in quantity. Love old jazz and lounge, kirtan, bossa nova, indie rock and new folk....
I think Jon Stewart should be President.
Food... Italian, Mediterranean, anything is better with goat cheese, fresh farmer's market veggies, simple but intense flavors. I am a good, but frustrated cook living with a tiny kitchen.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Real tomatoes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to get it all done in a small amount of time
Places I would like to visit
How to photograph whatever I see
What's going to happen to today's youth
Stretching my paycheck creatively
What clever thing to say on my facebook status
If my cat goes in & out the back door more than other cats
What to do in the next adventure of my life
How to create the right job for myself (like do I really have goals?)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes stoic, but willing to shake it off for a little fun!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes I think about running away from it all; or running headlong into it all!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Then if any of these fit:
you are smart but not arrogant about it - it's not a competition
you aren't seeking status or trophies
you are happy with your life
you don't like drama
you are not married, that's what i meant by single.
you have a good sense of humor
you don't want to convert me to your religion
your baggage isn't all you're about, we've all got some at this age
you are a progressive or liberal, or very open won't
convince me to abandon my ideals just as i won't you yours.