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sunflowerstar4u

60 F Springfield, MO

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:11am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I just left a relationship and although not happy with that I will survive. Of course there is always tomorrow but I hope I don't have to take a chance on another loser. I get so depressed at what I have found with most guys out there. So I will devote myself to my writing and making what I have work.
DON'T BE AFRAID TO EMAIL ME. I DO NOT BITE (MUCH) AND I HARDLY EVER BARK AND I LOVE TO TALK SO EVEN IF I DON'T LOOK LIKE YOUR IDEAL PERSON WE MIGHT BE FRIENDS.

IF YOU DON'T WANT TO TALK TO ME DON'T LIE. WON'T SAY WHY BUT I KNOW WHEN I AM BEING LIED TO. IF YOU ARE TALKING TO ME AND DECLARE UNDYING DEVOTION I WILL ALSO BE ABLE TO SPOT A FAKE. JOIN THE REAL WORLD PLEASE. AS I ALWAYS SAY "MY MOTHER DIDN'T RAISE ANY STUPID KIDS, UGLY ONES MAYBE, BUT NOT STUPID".

From My Facebook Profile:
I am someone that believes you should give with the heart. Thats why I often get my fingers caught in the doors that slam shut. But I keep doing it.
I like writing, reading, cooking, sewing, knitting, crocheting, travel, camping, crime, mysteries, genealogy, astrology, paranormal, history. I am also interested in ufos and other 'outside the normal' subjects. I can discuss just about anything though. One book I hope I can read again is about the natural order of evil. It discusses whether nature is evil or just nature. It's done in such a way to make the subject thoroughly fascinating.

Unsolved crimes, child/adult abductions, psychology, philosophy, love, soul mates, twin flames, reincarnation, science fiction, unsolved mysteries

I am basically honest. If I get the feeling that I am just a number in a game I will not disclose every thing there is to know about me. My job and my income, and my health are MY business unless you are applying for the job of supporting me. I pay my own bills and I am up walking or able to get around. If you get to know me you may find out more. I don't care what you make. I only care if you are honest enough not to play games. To me that is the most important part of any relationship. If that bothers you then its been nice NOing you.

I am loyal, creative, and loving
What I’m doing with my life
Actually I am on a journey. Its called life and with it comes all the ranges of emotions from ecstasy to numbness. I can never ever be called an atheist because I believe in something, although at times I struggle to figure out what it is. What I feel is important about this journey is that even in the darkest hours of the day or night I can see the light and that is because I look within for it. Not on the outside.
I am getting a start on a book I want to write and it will be fiction because I want to tell a story not just discuss facts. I am the type that feels at home no matter where I go. Just give me my space and I am happy.

I have written most of life except for the ages of 0 to about 5 or 6 when I first learned how to form sentences. I remember writing short stories in 2nd and third grades and how I loved every minute of it. I was also drawing all the time. My favorite subject was dogs. It becomes addicting to write and to draw. Still love it only now with writing I have entered the computer age and believe me it took some getting used to transfer the thoughts I used to write long hand to the computer screen. I found it hard to think when I first started doing it. Now it is easier but sometimes when I have writers' block I get out a pen and paper. That actually does the trick.
There was a time when it was recommended that I make lists to figure out some problems. Then I just forgot the lists. I do that with going shopping also so making lists is not a big 'priority' with me. I find that I need to plan but do short term planning as my long term plans fall flat on their faces. If I want something to happen 'seize the day' and to 'hell' with long range plans. It won't happen if I have to plan weeks ahead. Right now I am working with websites and making information readily available on several topics.. the two main ones being genealogy and the paranormal/astrology.
I’m really good at
Writing when I think its important enough. Also I am good at accepting people for what and who they are not what I think or hope they could be. I've always put creativity first and felt that my ability to create my own patterns was something that set me apart from others.

I am also good at trying to find ways to make people smile. I also adhere to the 'random acts of mindless kindness' syndrome. Try it and see how much it brings back to you.

I am also really good at depressing myself. So I try to concentrate on others and not deal too much with me. I'm happy when I am doing something for others.
The first things people usually notice about me
I talk too much. Sometimes I don't talk enough. I get emotional and want to save the world. And I love you. I don't mean hearts and flowers love or maybe I do. Another trait of mine. My favorite saying is 'on the other hand'.

You are special to me. No one will ever come my way again with the same set of talents, the unique personality, your smile, the way your eyes light up at what makes you happy, the way you may or may not gesture with your hands, the way your body speaks to me. You are special and unique and hopefully will sit a spell and talk to me when you pass through my world. Try it and see.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
From My Facebook Profile:

Books: Dean Koontz, Stephen King, The Thorn Birds, The Far Pavilions. Brian Lumley

Movies: Twilight series, Dragonfly, White Noise, The Covenant, The Stepfather.

TV Shows: Court TV, Forensic Files. Unsolved Mysteries, Dr. Who

Music: country, classic rock. I love 38 Special's SECOND CHANCE

Food: chicken, cheese, tacos, barbeque (anything)
The six things I could never do without
Love
Animals
Books
Writing
Music
Genealogy

ONE THING I CAN DO WITHOUT: OPERA
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Genealogy. I am obsessed. Hatchlings on facebook. Those two are not just interests they are obsessions. If you are my love I can assure you that you are on my mind 24/7 with no time off for either good behavior or holidays.

I also spend a lot of time wondering if there is someone out there for me. Or have I already had my chance and now it is past. I wonder if real love can hit many times in our lives. I hope so because it would be so nice to have a special someone in my life again.
On a typical Friday night I am
What's a typical Friday night? Each day is new so there is nothing typical about any of them. What I would love to do on a typical Friday is be held by someone special and stay up to see the sun rise on Saturday. It has been a while since I was able to do that with anyone.
Anyone willing to break out of a typical Friday night?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I fall in love and that those who enter my life are very special to me. Most of what I am is open and I try not to hide.
I’m looking for
  • Guys
  • Ages 25–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
and only if you aren't into playing mind games or wanting just sex. if you are wanting a friend to talk to. if you are not into using people and hurting them. you are an original and need to think as I love debate and exchange of information.