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41 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

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Yesterday – 11:15am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Who am I? . . . I'm a dashing silent film star whose french accent prevents him from making the big leap to talkies. Wait, no--that was a movie.

I would describe myself as stable in my career and goal-oriented. I enjoy making people laugh. I am intelligent and can carry on meaningful conversations. I care about other people's feelings.

When I'm with someone special I like being spontaneous, adventurous, romantic, surprising them with little gestures, sensual, playful, and basically having that type of fun you see two people who share a wavelength having... someone to laugh with, hang out with, be spontaneous with, and have fun with. I'm looking for someone who has similar qualities and desires someone who they can connect with.

I feel there has to be mutual physical attraction for there to be good chemistry between two people. So being fit and having good looks are important, as well as sensuality and affection.

Having some similar interests helps--some things I enjoy are exploring the great restaurants and bars of NYC, going to the beach, watching movies including indie & foreign films, going to see improv comedy, going on day trips to local attractions, having romantic nights at home, cuddling, and basically having a blast together.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am walking down the street with my briefcase in one hand, umbrella in the other. In still another hand I am carrying a banana, and in another a bag of balloons for making balloon animals. I have a tremendous number of hands, each holding something strange and useful, in its own way. I reach out with one of my hands, and out sprouts many more hands, each grabbing something and putting it to use. My legs are a blurred wheel as I breeze by quickly, blowing up the skirts of women who walk beside me. I am a factory of simultaneous gestures, actions, and expressions. I am a teetering, gangly, spindly machine that runs on ultra-specific and precise micro-emotions.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making the funny.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Big blue eyes
A little goofy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
In my dream, we know the town is on fire. But we are resigned to the fact. We will simply have to walk around this way, on fire, until things are all sorted out.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on my OKCupid profile.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Whenever I see a man with a beard, mustache and glasses, I think, "There's a man who has taken every precaution to avoid people doodling on photographs of him".
You should message me if
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