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sunjohn

58 Shutesbury, MA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 35–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Hi, I'm a kind-hearted and creative guy, seeking a dynamic, fun, loyal, and deep relationship. I am often struck by the beauty of women, and welcome the opportunity to devote myself to an equally devoted woman. " The poet Rumi says that our longing is ultimately a longing for the experience of the divine. I do not think of this as something found particularly in religions. All of life is divine, don't you think? So I am interested in relationship that is committed to supporting the richness of our life journeys. I'm a musician, meditator, and teacher of philosophy, Buddhism, world religions, and creativity.

For many years I unschooled my two beautiful sons as a single dad, and they are have grown and flown into amazing young men. I now work with unschooling teens in the same way. I'm enthusiastic, playful, and visionary. I also enjoy being silly and doing ordinary things -- like hiking and playing volleyball and listening to music. I'm a loyal friend, and I am interested in creating an interpersonal atmosphere that we can all flourish in. I like to empower others. Here's a lyric I try to live by:

Wake now discover that you are the eyes of the world
Wake now discover that you are the song that the morning brings.
What I’m doing with my life
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Improvisational music and dance, working with teens, studying, teaching and writing about meditation, Buddhism, world religions, philosophy and creativity. Practicing silent illumination. Participating in community.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creating music for dancers and for contemplative listening. Listening. Spiritual counseling. Facilitating groups. Being loyal. Explaining mystical subjects.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Kind blue eyes, slender build, gentle smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Poets: Hafiz and Rumi, Mary Oliver, Pablo Neruda.
Novelists: Nikos Kazantzakis, Ursula K LeGuin, Tolstoy
Jazz musicians: John Coltrane, Chick Corea, Miles Davis, Miro Sprague and many more
Folk & rock musicians: Bruce Cockburn, the Grateful Dead, Patty Larkin, Allman Brothers, Bob Marley, world music fusion . . .
Spiritual and philosophical texts like the Yoga Sutras, the Tao Te Ching, and too many more to name . . . .
Food like Pad Thai, Kasha, Apples, almonds, tahini, tempeh, salmon and lots more
Science fiction, art films.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music
nature
spirituality
Buddhist meditation
family
good food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Enlightenment. How to create a global dialogue. Music. Philosophical ideas, spirituality. Life situations with my sons, friends, and community. Love and sex..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes I am out listening to music or dancing or at a movie, or attending a talk.
sometimes I am home for a quiet evening, writing, watching a movie, or hanging out with a friend
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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get to know me
You should message me if
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If you want an adventure, and make a life-long friend, and are open to love.