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23 F Pittsford, NY

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  • Ages 21–30
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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
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Graduated from university
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My self-summary
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I'm Marissa and I am a compassionate, sweet person with exceedingly large goals and desires. I want so much for the world and for myself. I see most things in life as destinations, but strive daily to recognize that life is a process. I do my best to enjoy the path that I am on and the moment that I am in, knowing that the journey is often more beautiful than the end result. I'm often long-winded and mostly eloquent. I care so much for others and desire the same care and respect back from the universe. I believe in soulmates, the power of the universe, fate and being exactly where I am meant to be when I am meant to be there.
What I’m doing with my life
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I graduated from college in May and am currently enjoying a transition period in Rochester. I just finished up a children's theatre production of The Wizard of Oz, playing a somewhat gender ambiguous Scarecrow. I will be music directing a show at a Syracuse high school over the course of the next couple months. I work a day job, and in my spare time, I work on my craft as much as I can. I also write as much as I can.
I’m really good at
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Giving. That is certainly the first thing I am good at...though I can't say I am the best at receiving. I'm good at singing, directing, acting, playing the piano, learning new things, being a hard worker. I'm good at daydreaming even when I should be paying attention (ie - during class and while driving). I'm good at rapping...particularly Ludacris, some old school Aaron Carter, Shoop by Salt n Peppa, Eminem etc. I'm good at giving 100%.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I would have to say that my big smile, big eyes, and kindness are what people first notice about me. If they're meeting me for the first time at a performance, my voice might be the first thing they notice. After that, they might notice my tendency to swear frivolously...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm not a big reader, usually because I don't have time. But I love to read memoirs, plays, the news, and anything that makes me think. I enjoy Looking for Alaska, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Bossypants by Tina Fey, I'm also open to suggestions.

Some movies I love are Grey Matters, Imagine Me and You, Mean Girls, Pitch Perfect, The Holiday, The Princess Diaries, Akeelah and The Bee, Disney movies, Frozen, etc etc. Again, not a movie buff, but always open to new things. I watch a lot of documentaries. I find them enthralling and thought provoking.

Television: How I Met Your Mother, Grey's Anatomy, Will and Grace, 30 Rock, Law and Order: SVU, Orange is the New Black, American Horror Story, New Girl, Saturday Night Live, Parks and Recreation, Friends, etc.

Music: Anything and everything. I am constantly on the search for new things. I love musicals. That is a given. I like a lot of other music as well - Ingrid Michaelson, Sara Bareilles, Fun, Tegan and Sara, Pink, Indigo Girls, Mumford and Sons, Bright Eyes, Joni Mitchell, all sorts of rap music, Missy Higgins, Amy Cook...the list goes on. There is no song I won't give a fair chance.

Food: I love to eat and I love to cook. am a chocolate fanatic. If it's combined with peanut butter, even better. My guilty pleasures are pizza, bacon, chinese food, and boneless buffalo wings. I try to consume those sparingly. I love fresh fruits and vegetables, chicken, cheese, yogurt, etc. I love cooking my own meals and making up new recipes for myself. Trader Joe's is my favorite place to buy groceries. When it comes to fish, seafood, or mushrooms, I typically steer clear. Most importantly, I love coffee. Oh...and also wine. All of the wine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Alone time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my place in this world, my purpose. I daydream often. I also think a lot about others.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
usually with friends, maybe at a bar or binge watching a new show on Netflix or drinking all of the wine and playing board games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Get to know me and you'll find out :)
You should message me if
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you've gotten to the end of my profile and are still curious and intrigued. Or if we have a lot in common. Or if you'd like to get to know me better.