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53 Clitheroe, UK Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–57
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 27
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Please don't contact me if you live outside the UK.....thank you!

I'm fit and active, like to have challenges and goals and i'm passionate about things I care about. Confident(ish), but in a quiet way and not easily offended..yet i'm that a contradition? I prefer to observe rather than being in the thick of things. I can be daft at times, serious when need be and hopefully interesting company. I believe I have a lot to offer the right (lucky) man haha. With 3 grown up children and a career in a social work team, hopefully I have a flexible attitude to life and can see things from others' points of view. Work is only a part of my life and evenings and weekends are my own to enjoy cycling, walking, reading, family and friends, gardening, charity shops, places of interest....loads more really, which you can find out if I've piqued your interest a little bit!

There has to be some 'chemistry' but for me that really is more to do with emotional intelligence and those indefinable quirky things we all have, much more than looks. If you also have good manners and kindness, an inquisitive mind and a sense of adventure and fun, then we may be onto something.

I'm pretty independent and happy in my own company.... well not all the time otherwise I wouldn't be on here. So it would be lovely to share some of my life and interests with someone special, to make a few plans together and share life's ups and downs.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working hard. I have 3 grown up children - 1 in Oz so I try to plan a trip every year or two. I like learning new things and have studied through work and also completed a counselling course. Love cycling - I've cycled the Leeds/Liverpool canal, the coast to coast and a couple of 100 milers. I also love walking
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Observing - so if you've added 2" to your height I'll notice! And if your dad turns up to meet me and not that hot guy in your pic...i'll notice that too.
Listening...I listen to what people say, and show an interest.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I really don't know....I'm tall? and slim? visual things I guess initially
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - I love reading and always have one on the go.
Music - that overused phrase "eclectic taste in music".
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
walking boots
food/drink - chocolate, tea, banana bread, my excellent salads
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home or out and about
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm admitting nothing :)
You should message me if
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if you like what you've read and think we might click.
If you live within 30 miles