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35 San Francisco, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 28
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Other (Okay)
My self-summary
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I'm a warm, lively person who places great value on imagination. My favorite things include brunch, Golden Gate Park, bookstores, and making extensive plans (for vacations, theme parties, movies, dissertations on 80s icons, etc). I love stories and learning about people and human nature. In particular, I like to both read and write for kids around 4th through 6th grades. I grew up in an antiquing family and have several cool collections.

It's probably worth mentioning that my family is a big part of my life. I enjoy close individual relationships with my sister, mom, and dad. I am a Bay Area native, went to college at a hippie liberal arts school in the mid-west, spent time in England and Nepal, and have been in the city for 10 years. I'm passionate about working with kids, especially helping them develop socially and emotionally. I have two master's degrees, one in teaching and one in counseling psychology.

I am quick-talking, inventive, and snuggly.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work as the head of education at a unique non-profit for children in Oakland. My varied responsibilities include directing summer camp, developing and teaching creative curriculum, and doing counseling on-site.
I’m really good at
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Making things up, being a friend, eating burritos neatly, reading out loud, resolving conflicts...
The first things people usually notice about me
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I smile at everyone (I was voted friendliest in my high school senior class poll).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Solitaire Mystery, The Passion-Flower Hotel, Failure is Impossible, The Egypt Game, Stella Street and Everything that Happened, The Snark-out Boys and The Avocado of Death, and pretty much anything by Daniel Pinkwater

Movies: Sirens, Dogtown and Z-Boys, The Breakfast Club, Pippi on the Run, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, The Great Muppet Caper

TV: Law and Order: SVU, Call the Midwife, Most Extreme Elimination Challenge, You Can't do That on Television (Why oh why hasn't this come out on DVD yet???)

Music: Classic rock, the pop of my childhood, and of course Beyonce

Food: Olallieberry pie, burritos, Indian and Nepali
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Could be sushi and karaoke. Could be sleeping.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like Neil Diamond.
You should message me if
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If you're looking to meet someone with the potential for a real relationship, I encourage you to write me. I'm going to be up-front and say that I have only ONE superficial requirement and that is height. I have tried dating guys shorter than me (I'm 5'9") and it never works. As for unsuperficial requirements, many of my friends are gay and I could never date someone who has a problem with that. So what AM I looking for? I'm seeking someone who is full of life, a creative thinker, and emotionally aware. Thanks for reading!