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30 Atlanta, GA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
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Last online
Today – 6:13am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from Ph.D program
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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My name is Jonathan, I'm from Denton, TX, which was recently rated the best small town in America! And no, you don't have to pretend to care about that. But if you ever happen to visit, beware. You will wind up staying for at least four years and you will love it and not want to leave. You're welcome.

I'm mostly introverted, I'm a book worm with a bohemian bend, and I tend to be carefree (i.e., no shits are given...usually). I hope you could manage to find these traits endearing rather than irritating.

I'd much rather be participating in a hippie drum circle or a book club than hanging out at the local gay bar. Sorry not sorry.
What I’m doing with my life
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I just got out of a six-year graduate program and I have no idea what to do with myself. It's been awhile since I've seen the sun or anything other than a textbook or manual of some sort. I'm trying to use this time to get in touch with the fun and kind person that I used to be before grad school.

In other words, I'm not really sure. I'm here to do my postdoc and hopefully make some good friends and experiences along the way
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Tennis on hot days, shooting pool after three beers, darts after I'm drunk, and finding awesome antique furniture to clutter up my house. Also, if there is a trivia game, you definitely want me on your team unless the category is sports. I'm also good at being loyal. If we become friends, then it's likely for a lifetime.

Enough about me. How are you?
The first things people usually notice about me
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My bozo hair. You'll either love it or hate it, and since I was meant to be born in the 60s, I haven't made plans to cut it.

You might also notice my dog. He's an old english sheepdog named Walter, and he's very playful, sometimes to his detriment.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Drift by Rachel Maddow, The God Delusion by Richard Dawkins, The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander, Blink by Malcolm Gladwell, Existential Psychotherapy by Irvin Yalom, The Way of the Peaceful Warrior by Dan Millman, for starters

Movies: Pan's Labyrinth, anything Tarantino related, Pieces of April, lots of documentaries
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Embarrassing stories - mine or yours
2. Laughing at myself and at you. People who reek of self-importance, you have been warned
3. All of my friends
4. An interesting travel itinerary
5. A good book and a strong cup of coffee
6. An escape plan
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How can I make a meaningful impact?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
engaging in horseplay and tomfoolery. And hopefully avoiding the cops
You should message me if
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you like coffee, tea, arcades, tennis, racquetball, running, debates, activism, general nerdiness, or if you'd like a friend.